"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finance Chick says ‘growing crisis of the young American male’ could send home prices falling for years or even decades

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wait a minute...I thought women didn't make as much as men. How will they be able to afford a house?
 

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What's astounding is that so many contemporary pundits act as if this "crisis* of The American Male" is anything new



Note what's said in the first few minutes here

This was written during the late 80s-early 90s




*RJ Samuelson's sage observation about our contemporary usage of the word "crisis" is instructive here:

"Few words are more overused in our debates than “crisis.” We have many — the education crisis, the inequality crisis and the environmental crisis, to name just a few. The word suggests an impending calamity unless we take instant action. The reality is that most crises are not calamities. They’re stubborn problems that, for one reason or another, defy a sweeping solution. Life goes on. The “crisis” label is mostly a public-relations device designed to attract attention"

Same thing is true of "men's issuues". Most of these troubles are complicated subjects for which there are no true "solutions", so much as there are various ways to reduce human suffering, and increase access opportunities for one and all
 
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