"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So after 17 years of being on this earth, i finally lost my virginity haha. Now, previous to this night, I had only made out with girls, and at most, felt their breasts. Anyways, I was down the shore with a few friends, and a girl i work with decided to pay me a visit.. well since living quarters were cramped, we shared a bed. Things escalated real quick, as I experienced my first time fingering a girl, being jacked off, getting head, and then for the finale, having sex. Afterwards, it was as awkward as most movies and people say it is though haha. But overall, it is a relief to just "not come out of high school a virgin" i guess. But anyways, I figured I'd let the community know, since the forum deff played a large part in my newly found "me", the past year and a half.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well... I wouldn't say "practice" as much as i would "learn". Some people come onto this site, hoping for a few quick tips and tricks that'll get you laid in a week. Sorry, but it just doesn't work like that. I started using some of the techniques in the middle of my junior year... its been a little over a year now and I have become a totally new person. You have to learn how to change your whole perspective on things. And then, when you get your priorities straight and have your life in order, the women will come.
 
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