"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finally!!!

El MonoLoco

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The girl I've been trying to go out with again for a month now is finally available tonight....damn it seems like forever....but she's stoked to finally get together again...hell so am I....she's a HB8...super hot


We're goin to a Heaven & Hell party so we're dressin up...

I'll keep yall posted...


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The update...

I know it's been a couple of days but I don't have the internet at my house right now so I haven't gotten to a computer for a few....

Anyway...

The date was ok...again she had someone tag along....there were red flags all over the place...why I didn't just leave I don't know....at least this chick is going to Europe for a month so I don't have to think about her until then...I may just stop altogether...he he....

Here's a list of the good and the bad...


The bad...


-She had a friend with her
-We met up at another bar
-@ the 1st bar she tell me to wait where I'm standing for a second as her friend drags her to some corner of the bar
-While I stand there like a fool I see 2 guys getting all up on her dancing...WTF!?!?!?
( I almost left right then and should have....later she attempted to tell me that she had no control of the situation and didn't enjoy it...whatever....and she tells me that she told me to follow her...which didn't happen)
-She is currently still living (as a roommate) with her ex, they just recently broke up after 6 month...She doesn't want to move out cause she "loves" the house but it's her ex's best friend's house and he isn't going to kick his friend out for some chick who's staying there.
This is also why she's been so distant with me she says....she just got out of a relationship.....Ha! she's still livin in the same house.....
-As we are about to leave I had to relieve myself so I made her wait for me...I get back ...and she's gone.......turns out though that she got real sick and threw up so some one called her a cab and she cut out with out me.....damn line in the john!
-she's leaving for a month


Now for The good...

-She professed to me just how much she liked me....
-tons of kino...she couldn't keep her hands off me
-She was anxiously waiting for me at the first spot....I actually snuck in when she wasn't looking and witnessed her eying the door constantly like a little kid waiting for their parents to get home
-she has told a number of people how much she likes to dance with me
-she tried to kiss me like 8 times before I let her....after that we didn't stop the rest of the night
-during cab ride to the place we were actually going to she was laying on me sniffing my neck
-she complimented what I was wearing...she has givin me lots of random compliments like that though....about my eyes and smile mostly?
-she's leaving for a month


So there you have it. From what I can gather this chick likes me, but I can already smell the drama brewing and I don't like drama...

I don't know where to go with this one guys....
 
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