"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sounds good i will try it just for fun but anyways i'm not shy or nothing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting.....

Ever tried waving at a random girl and seeing if they wave back?
 
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Personally i don't like being dishonest. When i do things like this i don't feel like being honest and im "beating around the bush". However, if it works, go for it. It might be a good stepping stone on your way to confidence, but i don't think its the 'answer', the only 'answer' is simple: repetition.
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Personally i don't like being dishonest. When i do things like this i don't feel like being honest and im "beating around the bush". However, if it works, go for it. It might be a good stepping stone on your way to confidence, but i don't think its the 'answer', the only 'answer' is simple: repetition.
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Whilst i agree with you, im still dishonest occasionally, tell people i was bailed on by my friends, if i go out on my own and someone pressures me as to why im out on my own. Although at other times, i tell them the truth: that im out there to have fun
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Personally i don't like being dishonest. When i do things like this i don't feel like being honest and im "beating around the bush". However, if it works, go for it. It might be a good stepping stone on your way to confidence, but i don't think its the 'answer', the only 'answer' is simple: repetition.
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Yah but in my opinion high school is just acting politics, sometimes you have to lie. (no you cannot bomb another country)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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