Finally moved out of the US...

[SpartanWarrior77]

It was time. I've had enough...

I wont specify the country but I'll say it's near the middle east. but not in it. Its not an ultra conservative or dangerous country. Over night my results improved. Just got a BJ from one gal and then a few days later got laid by another (all within one week). These were high quality, intelligent, feminine women. So done with the US. And I'm not some shlub who refused to change myself and went abroad to get easy lays. I'm -10% body fat, jacked, well-read, travelled and so on. I also put a ton of attention to detail on style (without being narcissistic). I have been here for a little over 3 months now and am starting to feel like the healing process has began for me.

The first month I was still feeling jaded from my experience in the US and my confidence level was low but little by little I started to realize that women here actually found me attractive, were legitimately curious about my life and the conversations improved dramatically. It's not paradise, don't get me wrong. I still deal with certain issues for example: daygame is a bit sketchier as it isn't as common so white knight behavior can occur (as it has for me) when local dudes think you're being a creep for approaching. (lesson learned, dont approach in front of local street types w/ shaved heads and sunglasses). The men are usually more confrontational when it comes to women which is kind of a good thing (solely from the sense that men here aren't afraid/cucked when it comes to confrontation) but can be annoying as they simply don't have the understanding of what daygame is and never meet women that way themselves... And it's still tough. Beautiful women are still courted by the higher level local guys and it's still competitive but it's still a very deep breath of fresh air compared to the absolute gutters that the US was in my experience. Again, I can only vouch for the bad results I had in a few states, I've heard certain states were better than others and so on.

But yeah I shut things down in the US and simply moved abroad. I took a huge pay cut too with work but it's worth it considering the fact that although I have a paycut my expenses also dramatically dropped as well (no more almost $1000 per month in gas). Did I move for the love of game and women? Shhhh don't tell anyone But if Im being honest...yeah it was a major reason. Not the only reason but one of the top 2 or 3. I felt like something inside of me was slowly suffocating in the US regarding my view on women, it was becoming dark, angry and resent started turning towards depletion and indifference. I had to move before that side of me started to rot. Life without beauty is dangerous as it can turn a man into someone...that he wouldn't recognize after a few years of this type of state. So now my mojo and my magic are re-awakening after a deep and overly prolonged slumber. Some of you gents just need to bite the bullet. I took a risk, it's not comfortable, I miss certain conveniences the US had. But I feel like I'm back on track towards becoming the man I was meant to be and I can enjoy my dating and sex life for once during the journey...

 

[plumber]

very believable. so your smv in the new place is higher than it was in the old place. do you know the specific reasons why ? money/skin/accent/other ???

 

[pipeman84]

Just got a BJ from one gal and then a few days later got laid by another (all within one week). These were high quality, intelligent, feminine women.

I have been here for a little over 3 months

Women who give BJs and have sex with an American who just arrived in the country are not high quality, intelligent or feminine. In fact they're viewed as w*ores who target a supposedly richer guy than the average local.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Over night my results improved. Just got a BJ from one gal and then a few days later got laid by another (all within one week). These were high quality, intelligent, feminine women. So done with the US. And I'm not some shlub who refused to change myself and went abroad to get easy lays. I'm -10% body fat, jacked, well-read, travelled and so on. I also put a ton of attention to detail on style (without being narcissistic). I have been here for a little over 3 months now and am starting to feel like the healing process has began for me.

The first month I was still feeling jaded from my experience in the US and my confidence level was low but little by little I started to realize that women here actually found me attractive, were legitimately curious about my life and the conversations improved dramatically. It's not paradise, don't get me wrong.

I took a huge pay cut too with work but it's worth it considering the fact that although I have a paycut my expenses also dramatically dropped as well (no more almost $1000 per month in gas). I felt like something inside of me was slowly suffocating in the US regarding my view on women, it was becoming dark, angry and resent started turning towards depletion and indifference. I had to move before that side of me started to rot. LSo now my mojo and my magic are re-awakening after a deep and overly prolonged slumber. I took a risk, it's not comfortable, I miss certain conveniences the US had. But I feel like I'm back on track towards becoming the man I was meant to be and I can enjoy my dating and sex life for once during the journey...

Sounds like there are pros and cons but overall a net positive which is a good thing.

 

[Bigpapa]

Women who give BJs and have sex with an American who just arrived in the country are not high quality, intelligent or feminine. In fact they're viewed as w*ores who target a supposedly richer guy than the average local.

or maybe they are ok girls that saw a shot to potentially have a relationship with a guy that has a higher smv than most men she encounters on a daily basis

men moving from first world countries to 2nd world countries get a boost in status

these days, most young people speak decent English outside of latam and Asia

Plus, women do not perceive the same way guys who live in the foreign country vs those who are just travelers

 

[Travel memoir21]

Good move, get out of the US while you can, it's the dating sh1t hole capital of the world and where adrogynous relationships rule. All you need to do is check out these AI communication, dating tips advice infomercials....it reeks androgynism to the max lol.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

these days, most young people speak decent English outside of latam and Asia

I live in latam. Its all about your socioeconomic status. People whose parents could afford private education have decent english.

 

[pipeman84]

or maybe they are ok girls that saw a shot to potentially have a relationship with a guy that has a higher smv than most men she encounters on a daily basis

men moving from first world countries to 2nd world countries get a boost in status

these days, most young people speak decent English outside of latam and Asia

Plus, women do not perceive the same way guys who live in the foreign country vs those who are just travelers

In the part of the world where OP moved, those women who have sex with supposedly rich foreigners (US, Canada, western EU) are really looked down upon. It's as transparent as being seen together with a 75yrs old fart. Everybody knows it's transactional. So no, they are not ok girls, they're on par with prostitutes.

 

[zekko]

Women who give BJs and have sex with an American who just arrived in the country are not high quality, intelligent or feminine. In fact they're viewed as w*ores who target a supposedly richer guy than the average local.

I've got to admit, that sentence was kind of jarring to me too. He moves out of the US so he can find some hos? What's the big accomplishment? I guess the point is that they were giving it to him though. Besides, maybe that's all he was looking for.

 

[Bigpapa]

are really looked down upon. It's as transparent as being seen together with a 75yrs old fart. Everybody knows it's transactional. So no, they are not ok girls, they're on par with prostitutes.

I get it, and maybe you are right

but at the same time I think it is also important who looks down at them. The guys who want to sleep with them but they can’t and the girls who most likely are jealous

I am not necessarily agreeing with the op, but I get it. Jerking off for years and years can destroy a guy

So what’s better, staying in a place that for whatever reason you can not brake the code, or you go to a third world world country and potentially bang some sl8ts so you can clear your mind?

sometimes you have to evade your life so you can actually look at it with cold blood, otherwise you will always be too emotional about it