Finally Lost My Virginity

[FutureSpartan]

Well, guys Im proud to report that I have successfully lost my virginity from a cold approach.

Played it cool and showed her a good time before finally inviting her over to my place for a "movie" and from there, it just happened naturally without any resistance.

The girl was very cool and down-to-earth. Wasnt stunner material by any means, but attractive enough to me, a seven. My "starter chick"

I had some performance issues. Masturbating to porn earlier affected my ability to stay hard. She had to be on top. I could not get off though. But I did enough foreplay to get her off at least. She left the house one happy girl.

The good thing is she is cool with me dating other girls (she's bisexual). Definitely fbuddy material.

To everyone else still struggling to lose their V-card, realize this. LET IT HAPPEN NATURALLY. Be aggressive when it comes to approaching and closing, but when you and her are getting to know eachother, play it cool and confident and let her get comfortable around you. Build a strong rapport. You know you're doing things right when she starts touching you and making suggestive statements. From there isolate and close.


Thanks Pook, Rollo Tomassi, Interceptor, Gunwitch, NickBe, Agent Zero and everyone else who shared their valuable insights.

 

[yep]

u masterbate before sarging? thats a no no.

but congratz on ur first sexual experience!

 

[KontrollerX]

Congrats bro.

 

[Phyzzle]

Thanks Pook, Rollo Tomassi, Interceptor, Gunwitch, NickBe, Agent Zero and everyone else who shared their valuable insights.

NickBe? LOL! While I'm sure he spat out some inspiring things swiped from the DJ Bible, you might want to note that everything he said was key-board-jockey BS. That kid was 14, tops.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128851

 

[foomee]

u masterbate before sarging? thats a no no.

Normally it's a no no... but he's a virgin and it was his first time, it probably helped him last longer. When I was first beginning to have sex I would beat it prior, but never do it before sarging or it may ruin your game... it's ok if you do it before sex tho.

 

[XTR]

Man, congratulations I'm still trying to lose my virginity but not with a hooker. A moment ago I ****ed up a chance I had with a pretty girl (maybe a 8) because I didn't know how to escalate (I still do not know in the field)..
ahh frustation...

P.S. how old are you, I turned 23 on sep. 2.

 

[KarmaSutra]

NickBe? LOL! While I'm sure he spat out some inspiring things swiped from the DJ Bible, you might want to note that everything he said was key-board-jockey BS. That kid was 14, tops.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128851

Phyzzle is spot on. :rockon:

Future Spartan, only beat your meat before you fvck if you don't have the physical constitution to lay pipe for a good while. If you're a two pump chump beat that fvcker senseless. Otherwise let it lie.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I feel proud that I can masturbate as many times as I want and if a girl wants to **** later on I'm as hard as marble.

I'm built like a fu<kin' pro. lol


Congrats on the lay too, spartan! =D

 

[Microphone Fiend]

congrats on gettin some thats always good to hear.

To karma and phyzzle: Just because dude is a kj doesnt mean he cant possibly offer valuable info. Granted, it must be evaluated a bit, but to ignore his opinion because it comes from a 'less superior' position than your own is ignorant. Obviously the OP was helped by his posting and you STILL insinuate that he offers little or nothing to the community... smh.

 

[SaucyBoy]

Actually you did good. You would have gotten too horny too soon if you had not masturbated.

Next time do not do it before she comes over. Learn to control your response and it'll really be there for you.

Read some articles here:

http://www.the-****oris.com/

Try some of the techniques on her. Have a blast.

 

[yep]

Yeah masturbation could be good in you know your gonna have sex, but not if your just talking to women.

I never masterbate before sex. There are so many more benefits if you dont even if u do nut early.

 

[Magma]

Congratulations, Sir. I applaud your effort.

:rockon:

 

[KarmaSutra]

To karma and phyzzle: Just because dude is a kj doesnt mean he cant possibly offer valuable info. Granted, it must be evaluated a bit, but to ignore his opinion because it comes from a 'less superior' position than your own is ignorant.

If it sounds like sh1t and whiffs of sh1t guess what it becomes tainted with?

The brother started out with some decent stuff then progressed to just picking fights.

 

[ElStud]

If it sounds like sh1t and whiffs of sh1t guess what it becomes tainted with?

The brother started out with some decent stuff then progressed to just picking fights.

I'm sorry Karma, but you're talking about someone else "picking fights" you're one of the biggest fight pickers I've ever seen.

 

[Phyzzle]

To karma and phyzzle: Just because dude is a kj doesnt mean he cant possibly offer valuable info. Granted, it must be evaluated a bit, but to ignore his opinion because it comes from a 'less superior' position than your own is ignorant. Obviously the OP was helped by his posting and you STILL insinuate that he offers little or nothing to the community... smh.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

And, yes, a guy who reads the DJ Bible, and spits it back with absolutely no experience with girls whatsoever, peppered with horrid advice from his bloated imagination ("teasing never works, hurr"), is offering nothing to the community.

I just thought it was hysterical that the OP took some life advice from a compulsive liar who has no social life. You've got to realize: everything he said about himself was a lie. Imagine what NickBe's real life must be like to make all that crap up . . . I kinda feel for the guy.

If the OP should compare NickBe's threads to Mic fiend's, then see which one is actually useful.

 

[FutureSpartan]

I don't know his post history or really care to know, he just replied to one of my posts with something insightful so I figured I give him credit.

Really, I think we should all stop attacking eachother. Im guilty of doing it myself (read the Osama thread), but I finally realized that it does nothing other than spread negativity.

Back to the OT, I just wanted you guys to know that it was NOT a same-day lay. I cold approached her on campus, established a rapport, and got her number on a high point during the conversation. I took her out on a couple of cheap dates before getting her comfortable and attracted enough to have her chill at my place. She came in her short shorts (good sign) and from there nature took over.

I was not expecting her to come over that night, however, so I rubbed one out that day. I thought it would be a good thing since i feared prematurely ejaculating. I had the exact opposite problem. I stopped masturbating for next time when we meet.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Well, guys Im proud to report that I have successfully lost my virginity from a cold approach.

Congrats, but try not to think of it as having lost anything. Women "lose" their virginity, Men experience sex for the first time.