"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Finally heard it from a womans mouth

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man that's a classy lady there. A lot of chicks get big head cause of modus generalous supplication from men. We need to nip ths in the bud or move to asia.
 

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joekerr31 said:
i continue to espouse that the ONLY response you should ever exhibit towards a woman who cops attitude... any kind of attitude... is to LAUGH.
My understanding from these boards are that women are magical and have 1 billion times the social skills of men so they'd be able to detect this fake laugh.
 

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mrRuckus said:
My understanding from these boards are that women are magical and have 1 billion times the social skills of men so they'd be able to detect this fake laugh.
lol, nice.
 

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WEll, I ran into her the other day,she "complained" the guy she was trying to make me jealous with stops over all the time at work. told her she brought it on herself. Then she asked why I didn't do breakfast. Told her she was being a pain in the azz. "well I was hungry" I told her,"No before that" Her eyes got huge-like I was standing there naked. HMM, guess men have always worshiped her before. BUT I don't think she figured out that IF she wants me,she doesn't get to flirt with other guys. Not like I'll get jealous and persue her harder.
See what happens,got a date with a different one tomorrow. SO it may not be anytime soon[this one is nicer and doesn't smoke like a chimney]
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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