"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finally heard it from a womans mouth

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man that's a classy lady there. A lot of chicks get big head cause of modus generalous supplication from men. We need to nip ths in the bud or move to asia.
 

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joekerr31 said:
i continue to espouse that the ONLY response you should ever exhibit towards a woman who cops attitude... any kind of attitude... is to LAUGH.
My understanding from these boards are that women are magical and have 1 billion times the social skills of men so they'd be able to detect this fake laugh.
 

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mrRuckus said:
My understanding from these boards are that women are magical and have 1 billion times the social skills of men so they'd be able to detect this fake laugh.
lol, nice.
 

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WEll, I ran into her the other day,she "complained" the guy she was trying to make me jealous with stops over all the time at work. told her she brought it on herself. Then she asked why I didn't do breakfast. Told her she was being a pain in the azz. "well I was hungry" I told her,"No before that" Her eyes got huge-like I was standing there naked. HMM, guess men have always worshiped her before. BUT I don't think she figured out that IF she wants me,she doesn't get to flirt with other guys. Not like I'll get jealous and persue her harder.
See what happens,got a date with a different one tomorrow. SO it may not be anytime soon[this one is nicer and doesn't smoke like a chimney]
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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