finally got over it

[Oni]

After years of having a oneitis, i finally found the key that freed me from her, and that key is confidence and self-esteem. I find myself speaking to a lot more girls now, and i actually strike a good convo with them. Things are going so well right now i cant believe it. I just wanna say thanks to all those great posts out there and to tell anyone out there who still have problems to trust me, all these reading on techniques and skills are USELESS if you don't have the confidence and self-esteen. Its like the fundamental to EVERYTHING. You CANT be successful without it.

Ok im done.

 

[The-Sultan]

lol, im still shy after 2 years, how did u get the confidence?

 

[The-Sultan]

ah, i approached today feels so much better

 

[Oni]

confidence is always within you, you just need to find the key to unlock it.

 

[Used]

Well for me i used to be that fat kid all through out middle and highschool..ya know so my confidence and SE was 0 i mean i hated my self....i was so depressed that i was out of shape and all the girls were only small talk friends....So i joined the gym my juinor -senior summer and went every day, i dropped from 210LBS to 155lbs and i noticed girls giving me more compliments...

HERE'S THE KEY TO GETTING OVER IT
take it from me. trust me on this one...get a friend to find out if a girl you have your eye on thinks your cute....and if she dose get her to introduce you to her.....just start talking ask about where she goes to school if she likes it...(if its the right time in her life) where she wants to go to college....then kinda flirt a little tell her she has nice eyes and make sure you keep eye contact the entire time you are talking to eachother......especially when you are listning.....(if she looks around when you are listning to her and you have solid contact she is nervious around YOU which means she thinks your a stud!!! So anyways, next time you meet up and if the convo seems to go somewhat smoothly ask her if she wants to go grab lunch sometime this week....
1.if she says yeah but i have school just be like so do i but ya know we can ditch....
2.If she gets out b4 lunch (b/c some schools do) then you better ditch the rest of your day and not be a ***** you only live once)

any ways so you out to lnch and you done...tell her that you have an extra 1&30 that she can spend with you (NOT YOU CAN SPEND WITH HER!!) take her to your house and give her a tour..when you get to anything but a bedroom get close to her look at her in the eyes for more than 2 seconds (count it in your head) then look at her lips and barley lick yours with the tip of you toung then look back at her eyes...If she smiles//messes w/ herhair//licks her lips//somthing that shows she likes you....KISS HER!!! DAMNT JUST DO IT!!! THINK TO YOUR SELF " SHE thinks im a stud and SHE WANTS me to kiss her"

Once you do this one time you will be completely cured of the lame mans SE/confidence curse...Turst me....see i did this and it worked for me.....the sad thing is the girl i did it to stopped talking to me the next day b/c she plays hard games like that...im still confused what i did wrong....But that dosent matter you know why SHE cured ME and i could care less now b/c now i dont have to focus all my energy on one chick...there are many others out there and if you screw up on your first time who cares! thats the hardest thing is no one wants to be rejected...but once it happens you realize its not that bad because you are a stud and you will get many more