"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finally got my new car. Here it is.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta

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good choice, man
there reliable cars
 

howardalex

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nice...I love nissans, I had an almera GTi but I had sh1t loads of problems with blowing engines 'cos I let an idiot service it and then the same idiot swap the engine when it blew :cuss:

as long as you employ chimps to look after it, you've got one nice car there :)
 

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Cool car. \I like the Altima SE-R.
I wish i was rich & could get the new Jaguar xkr. Look like an aston martin. $90k.....i better get a 2nd job.....well maybe in 5 years from now i can get a 5 year old one for $40k....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nice car, but I'm a honda lover :cheer:

but nice choice and looks good.

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WillieSacks

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Since my credit score was only a 550, I'm getting killed on car payments, I'm paying 550 per month (20% apr), but I'm definitely refinancing in 6 months. Also if anyone has any pictures of the 2008 maxima, please post it. I've been looking all over the internet for that car.

Anyone have any refinancing tips.
 

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As general credit advice, keep your monthly payments on all debt as low as possible so that your debt/income ratio is conservative. Also, don't apply for department store credit cards. If you have a visa/mc, use it a little, carry a balance for a month or two, then pay it off and ask them for a higher limit after the balance is paid down to zero.
 
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