"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finally found the girl I want.

IronRice

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I finally found the girl I want. Her mom introduced me to her a week ago and I kinda got the feel she liked me. Today (one week later), I was planning on talking to her a bit more. It didnt happened. I was talkin with a bunch of guys and ended up only taking her hand (my had up her hand down.. I remember reading something saying thats the proper way to shake a girls hand), and I said Hi. She has a really soft voice and its cool to see her.

The next time I see her will be Thursday. I want to make a move very soon, but Im not too sure where to go from. She I just start talking to her more, do the number close or what? Anyone willing to help an noob out? :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannowillbookem

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***** u definetly need to get a number. just talk her up and **** and say like "hey how about i call u sometime" my favorite thing to do is hand a girl my fone where its already to the screen where u put the number into the fone book and i dont even have to say anything.

where u gonna be seeing her at? and read the bible.
 

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Probably outside FWC (Church) Its a cool place. Lots of fun. Im just pissed with my self that I didnt get a chance today because Im talkin with the dang boys. I will definitly get some tips out of the Bible.
 
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All you need to remember man is, go for it! Then tell us how it goes, then you will learn.

Good luck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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