finally ****ed

[jtrain 289]

Hey guys i finally ****ed a girl . I just want to say that i think the only technique that works with females is just be your ****ing self. Techniques only **** you up cause it makes you start thinking once you start thinking of what to do your game is ****ed.
Its like swimming they say the best way to learn how to swim is to throw a baby in the water and it will automatically learn it wouldnt work for us adults because we think to ****ing much. Getting the opposite sex is actually a gurantee if you become yourself thats one thing ive learned just like your guranteed to know more about a human if you hang around him or her more.
The opposite sex is guranteed to be attracted to you if you act human(which means be yourself) dont try to be cool , or be nice , or be mean , or be funny. Just be yourself and if she doesnt like that theirs something wrong on her end One thing i dont like about this site is that we make it seem like girls are perfect like they knlow what is good and what is bad that just because girls like us means that we are doing the right things girls dont know anymore about life than we guys do in fact they know far less so what they think is bull****. Girls can be afc's to you can be brad pitt and do all the right things and the girl may still reject you not because of something bad that you did but because she is just afraid and insecure. The afc guy that is afraid to go up to girls is the equivalent of the afc girl that is afraid to except a guys advances. So just because you get rejected doesnt mean you have bad game it might mean she has bad game.That is why we have ourselves because if we do that we never lose we always win whether we get rejected or not.
I was basically walking back from a party and i complained that i didnt get any ***** to this random guy. Then i saw this random girl walked up to the girl and talked to her for like 20 minutes she rejected me so i went up to the next girl and i said to her

Me( where is this place) i knew how to get there
Her(Its this way )
Me(Where do you live )
Her(This place)
Me Wow ive never been there before can i see your dorm
Her Ok
Her your very sneaky
Me Why do you say that? you think im gonna try to have sex with you i never try to have sex with girls on the first night I would try to make out though
Her(Ok)
Small talk

As soon as get to her dorm i start making out with her then shes like im going on my bed and that i could come so i came up and she was the one who took my **** and tried to stick it in her vagina i took it out after like 10 secs though i didnt bust cause i didnt have a condom i had no idea that day would be the day.


You see i didnt try to be ****y or funny i didnt try to be a jerk i didnt try to be sweet. I was just me . Just be you we already have all we need we have to reproduce for survival so we already have all the tools we need for attraction we dont need anymore from message boards just be you. Just like we need to eat to survive we have all the tools to eat we dont need to go to any message boards to know that anything we need for survival is an innate trait we are all players inside if we just stop thinking and just start doing what you feel. The only reason sarging is good is because it helps you become more comfortable with yourself hence you start using your innate traits more . ***** is just as easy as eating once we start using our guts to get it instead of using our minds once we learn to do that we truly can **** any girl in the world.

 

[Scars]

I hate to bust on your balls but you technically didn't "fvck" anyone. You were in her for 10 seconds and then pulled out. You should always be carrying rubbers around, in the event stuff like this happens. I've actually found that carrying condoms has helped me a lot, I psychologically know I'm ready, I know I wont miss any opportunity, and if the opportunity comes then I will take it.

Also, you were inside one girl for 10 seconds and think you've unlocked the secret to everything. The girl you hooked up with was a WH0RE. I can't put it any more nicely than that. You were also at a party so chances are she was probably drunk. Being "yourself" will of course work with a drunken wh0re. She was obviously looking for some d!ck that night, so she clinged to the first guy that approached her with an offer.

To say that techniques don't work is a little frivolous because they do. It shouldn't be the end-all-be-all to your game, but I know a lot of guys who are being "themselves" and still haven't even touched a pvssy.

Again, I'm not trying to be a d!ck but you're completely ruling out important techniques such as C+F over ONE experience. And in a way,

Me Why do you say that? you think im gonna try to have sex with you i never try to have sex with girls on the first night I would try to make out though

was some sort of C+F line. If that is you being "yourself" then congratulations, but to say that is the solution for everyone is a loaded statement.

In any case, congrats on your first sexual experience. :]

 

[jtrain 289]

actually it wasnt at the party it was after the party and if having sex with a girl at a party is so easy to do because shes drunk than why dont all you guys that constantly cry about getting no ***** just go to a party. and once your **** is inside a girl for 1 sec its a **** theirs no time limit for what you call ****ing or not idiot. And if techniques truly work than how come the same guys that have been here for the past 5 years keep coming back and how come as soon as i stopped following it i started getting success.

 

[jtrain 289]

And when i say i never try to have sex on the first dATE WAS BEING NATURAL I MEANT IT. tHIS GOES TO SHOW THAT ALL THE TOOLS ARE IN US NOT ON PAPER STOP READING AND JUST GROW SOME BALLS BRO.

 

[Byezbozhniy]

Techniques are essentially used to mimic attractive guys. Some people are naturally attractive and carry out the same techniques without even realising it. Some people are not as lucky as these guys so they have to learn how to be attractive.

Of course these techniques work.

And by the way, Jtrain, judging from those two posts above, you really don't seem like a guy who gets it. You got lucky this time with a wh0re, as Scars previously mentioned. Congrats on getting wet all the same.

 

[SuSHI]

I hate to bust on your balls but you technically didn't "fvck" anyone. You were in her for 10 seconds and then pulled out. You should always be carrying rubbers around, in the event stuff like this happens. I've actually found that carrying condoms has helped me a lot, I psychologically know I'm ready, I know I wont miss any opportunity, and if the opportunity comes then I will take it.

Also, you were inside one girl for 10 seconds and think you've unlocked the secret to everything. The girl you hooked up with was a WH0RE. I can't put it any more nicely than that. You were also at a party so chances are she was probably drunk. Being "yourself" will of course work with a drunken wh0re. She was obviously looking for some d!ck that night, so she clinged to the first guy that approached her with an offer.

To say that techniques don't work is a little frivolous because they do. It shouldn't be the end-all-be-all to your game, but I know a lot of guys who are being "themselves" and still haven't even touched a pvssy.

Again, I'm not trying to be a d!ck but you're completely ruling out important techniques such as C+F over ONE experience. And in a way,



was some sort of C+F line. If that is you being "yourself" then congratulations, but to say that is the solution for everyone is a loaded statement.

In any case, congrats on your first sexual experience. :]

I disagree with you. I think the OP had a good point about being yourself. Being yourself does work, actually, the whole point of this forum and all these techniques, is to get you to use them as a stepping stone, to the point where you are comfortable enough to TRULY be YOURSELF. It says that you joined this site in 2007? Well, I don't know if you were here before that, when this site was actually more helpful, filled with the legends and all.

But back then, someone put it best when they explained: The reason why guys have trouble with girls, and hear they just have to "be themselves" and it will work, but they just continue being unsucessful, is because, they are not actaully themselves. They are nervous and uncomfortable around girls, unlike when they are around their friends/family. So they take "being yourself", as not doing anything to change the situation. Thats why they continue to fail. I know, that was my main problem. I am by no means an expert now, but definatly not like that anymore.

 

[BobMo']

What you're calling "being yourself" is actually being relaxed and confident. You showed that to the girl with the:
"Me Why do you say that? you think im gonna try to have sex with you i never try to have sex with girls on the first night I would try to make out though" line, and that's what got you in.

The other posters who called her a ho are also correct. You got lucky, as we say. But keep up the good work!