"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Finally back to gym

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Took long enough; I didn't do gym since my college days (when it was optional as a subject), and with starting a new job in January I slacked off and gained weight and immediately felt less energetic for anything. Just found a fantastic gym 5 mins away from my place and close to work, which has a brilliant egym system. Basically, it measures you and then you have like 20 or so stations, that adapt to your specifics and you perform the reps and the weight with a visual feedback; kind of like playing a game, keeping the ball in the curved line. Brilliant, fun, engaging and time flies by and fits into my daily schedule well!

Find a system that works best for you and that keeps it fun and engaging, and things like going to the gym become something you look very much forward to. The fact that there's hb's there doesn't hurt either!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Epimanes

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Gym hero... I like it. Wish we had that here. Lol
 

user252009

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Gym hero... I like it. Wish we had that here. Lol
Man it makes ALL the difference for me. No need to think about what I gotta do, etc. Just go there, go through all machines in order, done for the day! Loving it and finally excited about going to the gym.
 
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