"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Finally asked this girl out...

WingHead

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,,,and I got rejected. She said she 'kinda has someone she's with' and that they 'aren't officially together' but they're together and that it's 'hard to explain.' I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it's hard.. .:kick:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro

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Don't feel bad. You did the right thing by asking her out. For guys who aren't used to it, it takes a lot of balls.

Forget about her and move on to another girl.
 

WingHead

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Maxtro said:
Don't feel bad. You did the right thing by asking her out. For guys who aren't used to it, it takes a lot of balls.

Forget about her and move on to another girl.

Yeah, even though I didn't get a yes I'm proud of myself for asking. Definitely gonna move on.
 

S.Y.L

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Move on, but congrats, now you know though. Good job.
 
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