Finally Approached!

[One on One]

I think I took a huge step last night. I have had a real problem with approaching girls cold. However, last night I was out drinking and decided I would approach a girl. My AFC friend commented that this girl looks like Britney Spears (she was wearing this hat, wasn't all that hot). I totally agreed and decided I would tell her, knowing my friend would never talk to her. Now, instead of sitting there thinking about the comment, I just relaxed and had a good time drinking with my people. The thing is I didn't even want this girl. I just wanted to make the comment. So, at the end of the night, before I left, I went up to her and told her that and had a brief conversation. She was receptive to my approach so that gave me a ton of confidence, but I never had any intention of going for a number or even a name! I, honestly, didn't care at all and that is what made it so easy!

I learned:
- Most girls aren't *****es and approaches aren't that much to be afraid of
- It doesn't take the wittiest comment in the world
- It's easier when you don't care about the result

 

[Nicholas Hill]

Exactly.Well done, i've yet to encounter a person with the two balls required to approach a chick who died as a result of the process.

Nick

 

[In Sync]

Congratulations. There's more where that came from.

 

[Starman]

Hey ! Thats my Line ! WHenever I go out to a club/bar..my approach usually is "Hey! anyone ever tell you you look like _____"

they are usually receptive..then I ask them to repeat a famous line from that celebrity

i.e.

"Hey! You look Like Britney Spears! Put your hands on your hips and say "Oops! I did it again!"

one time I told a chick she was a deadringer for Rosie O'donnell..that didnt go by very well

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by Starman
Hey ! Thats my Line ! WHenever I go out to a club/bar..my approach usually is "Hey! anyone ever tell you you look like _____"

they are usually receptive..then I ask them to repeat a famous line from that celebrity

i.e.

"Hey! You look Like Britney Spears! Put your hands on your hips and say "Oops! I did it again!"

one time I told a chick she was a deadringer for Rosie O'donnell..that didnt go by very well

Stolen! That's a great follow-up that I hadn't though about. I think the key is that the comment has to be genuine, though.

 

[killerasp]

Dude!!! Good JOB!!! I did my first number close last night. I grabbed my balls and did it! It really boosted my confidence more than you can imagine. I did call her up today to see if she wanted to go to another party today but i woke her up and she had mad work to do. No big deal. Ill hit her up later.

 

[Starman]

The key comment can be genuine or disgenuine...if its genuine..she will feel good that someone noticed her efforts to look like a pop star..

If she doesnt .. she will be curious to exactly..WHAT about her makes her look like a certain celeb..but you have to back this up with SOMETHING..like her eyes, outfit..jewelry, etc..

Like I said..I use this line all the time..Usually when I get drunk..I start to notice everyone looks like some celebrity..and I go from there

 

[Walden]

Go Dave! Good s*** bro!