Finally a woman who gives me space but

[Why_You]

I'm dating a girl who finally gives me some space (nearly all have been constant naggers, very insecure etc.) and I feel a bit spaced out by it. Her interest level is very high by all accounts but when I am at work or with the boys, she leaves me alone and just asks that I ring her when I get home to say goodnight (which I do off and on and when I don't she messages me saying goodnight at 1am).

I know I shouldn't be complaining or even threading but you guys ever experience this? I almost feel like she's being an alpha to me haha and making me wonder what she's getting up to.

 

[jurry]

She'll be "alpha" if you let her be, do not succumb to that mindset. You should be doing your own thing and not worried about what she is doing. If you are, prepare for the consequences.

Find new plates, meditate, go play fvcking bingo at the senior center.. Whatever you need to do.

 

[Why_You]

I agree, I think no matter how we perceive a woman I.e bad girl or good girl, there's always a common denominator in that they all have the need to be a little insecure, a little unknowing and very much consumed by their partner. AFC rule number 1 is all about making the girl your entire existence and self worth.

I think more than anything it's just a shock to the system going from literally 10 non-replied messages during work and 3 missed calls to 0.

But you know what, my experience tells me that we can't treat a club wh0re the same as we do a decent person. That applies to friendships as well.