"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FINALLY a new girl..

toddC

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Howdy boys, its been a little while ehh...Anyways, its been about 3 weeks that I've spent with little to NO options for myself. So finally I grabbed my sack and last night I believe I picked up a chick again.

My friend had a party (not a very good one) and I knew going into this that she was the girl I wanted that night. So I got there and walked around saying Hi to everyone and there she was...she ended up saying Hi to me first. Now later in the night I was just talking to her, holding a lot of EC and finally I said I was like mad at her for something and walked away. Now this is where I realized that if I went upstairs or downstairs she would only be a few minutes behind me. IOI? Then I left to go to another party and she texted me asking where I went...When we got back (the other party SUCKED), she greeted me again and then I walked downstairs...whcih she followed as usual. Now everyone was sitting down and talking and there were no more seats left for me so I told her to move over...she just patted on her lap so I sat on top of her..(some more intense kino)...She was kinda like rubbing my back gently and whatnot...Then she was like wait what are we doing..SWITCH...so then she sat on my lap..(a little more kino?) Then like I was paying no attention to the girl, my friends and I left AGAIN to go to yet another party...which sucked yet again...so we went back ( we were gone for about 20 minutes). This is when she decided to leave. So as we were walking in she was walking out. She said bye to everyone then playfully pushed me gave me some EC and then I gave her a kiss on her cheek (playing a little hard to get) and that was it...Now I didnt ask her for her # because I had it already...Should I be calling her today...or wait for tommorow? And how should I be playing this from this point on..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WC2

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Wow I would've made the move on this chick awhile ago, if she's up to snuff looks wise at least.
 

toddC

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yea she is a pretty decent looking girl...and I would have made a move when she was saying good bye to me but her ex bf (who is kinda my friend...not good friend...but a friend) followed us back to our friends house to hang there and I felt a little awkward so I didnt..
 

Kidd

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You could have successfully made a move, you didn't. Ask her to hang out and do what u gotta do.
 

toddC

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right, but should i be calling this girl tonight as last night was the first time we've hung out in about 8 months..or should i wait a little and possibly even get a text from her instead..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LikRetsam

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I'd make a move. Enough opportunities have been missed. Call her up.
 

toddC

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Okay update...now I may just be over analyzing this buttttt...I texted her today (2 days after that night)...We had a bit of a texting conversation and finally I asked her what she was doing that night and she just never responded...Do I wait for her to text me next or should I just call her tommorow or the next day?
 

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basically you have her in your hands, call her tommorow, do some little push a pull, ****ey and funny and you are there, good luck.
get down to some hot kino next time(without clothe)
 
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