"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finally a movie gets it right.

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How many of you have seen My Best Friend's Girl?

For those of you who haven't, the premise is that Jason Biggs is a huge AFC...watches chick flicks...acts like a nice guy, not because he is a nice guy, but because he thinks it's what works...his girlfriend dumps him when he prematurely tells her he loves her...so he hires Dane Cook to go on a date with her and act like as a total jerk so she'll come crawling back to him...only she doesn't and likes Dane Cook.

The Jason Biggs character is portrayed as this huge AFC...takes his girlfriend (Kate Hudson) out on five star dinner dates and such and they've only been dating for a few weeks. She even says "You know what I like about you...you pay for dinner."

Biggs comments on how Dane Cook is manipulative. Cook says "How's it any different than you showing a girl a just a highlight reel of yourself?" The other funny thing is Biggs acts all high and mighty but he has the biggest porn collection in the world.

When Kate Hudson LJBFs Biggs...he starts being her b*tch, bringing her coffee, sends her a DVD copy of When Harry Met Sally to try to manipulate her into liking him...does clothes shopping with her.

The funniest part of the movie is Alec Baldwin as Dane Cook's father. He's a professor and teaches a feminism class but it's all an act to seduce young hot women. Dane Cook is describing Kate Hudson to Baldwin, and Baldwin says to his HB secretary "You'll have to excuse my son...he rates women on a 10 scale based solely on physical beauty"...then she bends over and he whispers to Cook "You see that ass?"

Some of you who have seen the movie might not like how Dane Cook falls for Kate Hudson...but they make a good couple...both raunchy, cool people.

I just found it refreshing that not only does the AFC not get the girl...but that he's the butt of a lot of jokes in the movie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I haven't seen it, but I heard bad things. Anything with Dane Cook in a starring role seems to be poison (Employee of the Month, Good Luck Chuck). The best movies he was involved in were Mystery Men and Waiting... (both small roles, the first is basically a cameo).

In any case, yes it's nice to see a more realistic romance plot, but in the end he still falls for her like in any movie.

Now that I think about it, I may have to waste some time watching it. Alec Baldwin is great, and looking at the cast list I'm always ready to see more Lizzy Caplan or Diora Baird.
 

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That movie was hilarious. When I saw it in theaters I instantly thought Biggs was an AFC and Cook was a DJ. Alec Baldwin makes the movie tolerable.
 

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Eh...Dane Cook is really annoying, to me.

But I'll check it out just because you've said so confusedstate.

Just Friends is also good, in similar vein to the movie described in the OP--the main character basically describing DJ mentality to the audience, but only certain people will pick it up, others will probably dismiss it as hollywood.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl: You know what. You really are an *******!
Dane: Then walk away...


Moments later they are making out in the parking lot getting ready to go do danes place for a ONS :D
 

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Biggs: "She's seeing someone... she said she's seeing someone... and I am gonna find out who..."
 

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My best friend girl is a greate movie man really puts out the "afc vrs jerk" theme
My best friend Girl

other movies that put something good

Fight Club
this movie puts all the ego **** down

9 1/2 + weeks
the first aproach is legendary and the control this guy has over this girl is incredible

spread
this guy start good but shows how onitis can **** you up
good direct game

vicky cristina Barcelona
direct game

Revolver
an other pill for you ego

Fall
no girl is out of your leage, make things happend man!!!!!!!

Californication
check it for your daily dosis of djism
such a "I don´t give a fuk attitude" hilarious
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a great movie. I always found it odd that so many people hate Dane Cook and yet I've met many people who act just like he does around their buddies. They make the same kind of jokes but then say "Dane sucks."

Maybe it's because Dane acts TOO MUCH like a regular funny guy instead of trying to go over the top?

But most people I met joke around the same way Dane does. I never understood all the hate he gets for being real and down to earth.

The movie is hilarious and shows that being an AFC is really all an act. No guy WANTS to act like Jason Biggs does in the movie, but they act like that because they think "Hey I'm super nice! I'm different from all the other guys out there. She HAS to like me!" Most AFC's are fake and can't figure out why their scam doesn't work.
 
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