"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finall got the girls # who i had oneitis for, really bored now

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Long story short, there was this girl in two of my classes my freshman year. At first I just thought she was hot, then I started likeing her more. The bad thing was I never talked to her, and no I wasn't a stalker.

Sophomore year I liked her less, still didn't talk to her.

Junior year, last year, talked to her a little, liked her a lot less.

So one day during football practice, I saw her down in the gym, she had volleyball practice, I figured I would try talkin to her and see what happened.

I haven't seen her anywhere else since school ended so I decided I would send her a message on myspace, just asking how volleyball was going.

We started talking from there, and then started joking around if we fought for some reason, but at the end I ended up getting her number.

So heres the last part of the convo.

I was getting a little bored with her during the convo but oh well.

me: Lol I don't think you can handle me
her: psh i bet i can handle every single part of you
me: haha you're gonna have to prove it
her: lol ok how?
me: well lets hangout and you can prove it there
her: hey i have to get off so just text me k....*** ****

So I texted her a couple days later to try and set up the "date" and she would just like talk about things.

I was getting a little anoyed and even more bored with her so I figured I would sen her a push-pull that I think Supremo posted in another thread, didn't really have to much to lose.

me: know what? you're cute...too bad we wouldn't workout together
her: guess that's just too bad
me: lol

So I was wondering would you guys even pursue it anymore? Or do you guys think I just start talking to her again when school starts again?

Another plate wouldn't be bad to have right now, and maybe I could get something out of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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stoner1129 said:
Long story short, there was this girl in two of my classes my freshman year. At first I just thought she was hot, then I started likeing her more. The bad thing was I never talked to her, and no I wasn't a stalker.

Sophomore year I liked her less, still didn't talk to her.

Junior year, last year, talked to her a little, liked her a lot less.

So one day during football practice, I saw her down in the gym, she had volleyball practice, I figured I would try talkin to her and see what happened.

I haven't seen her anywhere else since school ended so I decided I would send her a message on myspace, just asking how volleyball was going.

We started talking from there, and then started joking around if we fought for some reason, but at the end I ended up getting her number.

So heres the last part of the convo.

I was getting a little bored with her during the convo but oh well.

me: Lol I don't think you can handle me
her: psh i bet i can handle every single part of you
me: haha you're gonna have to prove it
her: lol ok how?
me: well lets hangout and you can prove it there
her: hey i have to get off so just text me k....*** ****

So I texted her a couple days later to try and set up the "date" and she would just like talk about things.

I was getting a little anoyed and even more bored with her so I figured I would sen her a push-pull that I think Supremo posted in another thread, didn't really have to much to lose.

me: know what? you're cute...too bad we wouldn't workout together
her: guess that's just too bad
me: lol

So I was wondering would you guys even pursue it anymore? Or do you guys think I just start talking to her again when school starts again?

Another plate wouldn't be bad to have right now, and maybe I could get something out of it.
Did you just casually bring up taking her out or were you straightforward and asked her out? If you asked her and she didn't answer then she probably doesn't want to go out. She also didn't bite your hook to try to bait her by telling her u didn't workout (...even though nothing ever happened.) She doesn't seem very interested.
 

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I kinda casually asked her.

I went like this

me: so when are you gonna prove you can handle me
her: lol when i'm up for it
me: lol i get it you're scared, nice answer though
her: am not
me: actions are louder than words
her: my words are louder than actions blah blah blah


That's the beginning of when we started texting, and maybe but i'm not sure yet.
 
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