"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finall got the girls # who i had oneitis for, really bored now, dont know what to do

stoner1129

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Long story short, there was this girl in two of my classes my freshman year. At first I just thought she was hot, then I started likeing her more. The bad thing was I never talked to her, and no I wasn't a stalker.

Sophomore year I liked her less, still didn't talk to her.

Junior year, last year, talked to her a little, liked her a lot less.

So one day during football practice, I saw her down in the gym, she had volleyball practice, I figured I would try talkin to her and see what happened.

I haven't seen her anywhere else since school ended so I decided I would send her a message on myspace, just asking how volleyball was going.

We started talking from there, and then started joking around if we fought for some reason, but at the end I ended up getting her number.

So heres the last part of the convo.

I was getting a little bored with her during the convo but oh well.

me: Lol I don't think you can handle me
her: psh i bet i can handle every single part of you
me: haha you're gonna have to prove it
her: lol ok how?
me: well lets hangout and you can prove it there
her: hey i have to get off so just text me k....*** ****

So I texted her a couple days later to try and set up the "date" and she would just like talk about things.

I was getting a little anoyed and even more bored with her so I figured I would sen her a push-pull that I think Supremo posted in another thread, didn't really have to much to lose.

me: know what? you're cute...too bad we wouldn't workout together
her: guess that's just too bad
me: lol

So I was wondering would you guys even pursue it anymore? Or do you guys think I just start talking to her again when school starts again?

Having her as another plate wouldn't be bad to have right now, and maybe I could get something out of it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ARrocket

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I don't think that line was the best for your situation. But, no worries, don't waste your life thinking about it. Just go on that date, and win her over :D
 
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