"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Finall got the girls # who i had oneitis for, really bored now, dont know what to do

stoner1129

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Long story short, there was this girl in two of my classes my freshman year. At first I just thought she was hot, then I started likeing her more. The bad thing was I never talked to her, and no I wasn't a stalker.

Sophomore year I liked her less, still didn't talk to her.

Junior year, last year, talked to her a little, liked her a lot less.

So one day during football practice, I saw her down in the gym, she had volleyball practice, I figured I would try talkin to her and see what happened.

I haven't seen her anywhere else since school ended so I decided I would send her a message on myspace, just asking how volleyball was going.

We started talking from there, and then started joking around if we fought for some reason, but at the end I ended up getting her number.

So heres the last part of the convo.

I was getting a little bored with her during the convo but oh well.

me: Lol I don't think you can handle me
her: psh i bet i can handle every single part of you
me: haha you're gonna have to prove it
her: lol ok how?
me: well lets hangout and you can prove it there
her: hey i have to get off so just text me k....*** ****

So I texted her a couple days later to try and set up the "date" and she would just like talk about things.

I was getting a little anoyed and even more bored with her so I figured I would sen her a push-pull that I think Supremo posted in another thread, didn't really have to much to lose.

me: know what? you're cute...too bad we wouldn't workout together
her: guess that's just too bad
me: lol

So I was wondering would you guys even pursue it anymore? Or do you guys think I just start talking to her again when school starts again?

Having her as another plate wouldn't be bad to have right now, and maybe I could get something out of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ARrocket

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I don't think that line was the best for your situation. But, no worries, don't waste your life thinking about it. Just go on that date, and win her over :D
 
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