"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Final exams, or Falling interest?

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Pimp-sicle

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No laughs just a massive congradulations!! When you are in love with someone its incredibly hard to see them for who they really are (usually bad..lol) when your feelings have developed to such a strong level. However, with that said there's only so much disrespect any man could take before they finally break and walk away from a downward relationship. You FINALLY took our advice and started looking out for yourself FIRST, rather than that nutjob of a gf.

Get back to being you and when the times right, jump back in the field you'll feel awesome.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It might seem hard to be happy now. But just think if you HAD married her. Going through this sh*t month after month. You'd be clinically depressed. You dodged a bullet. My advice: don't forget about it. Learn from it.
 
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Best of luck. I have a feeling she'll be crawling back to you in a few weeks, and it will be up to you to decide how you want to play it from here. Only advice i can offer is, don't call or contact her-at all.
 
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