Filtering out the crap.

Tha Realnezz

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The thread-title speaks for itself.

I've noticed many horror stories here about super-b!tches who've played and destroyed the confidence of many a player with there bull****.

Leaving the younger posters with the sense that all women should be treated with a heavy-hand.

"I am the prize" and "My way of the highway" can't and won't help you when you've already engaged in dealing with rotten women.

You have to learn how to spot the difference between typical female behavior & a worthless woman.

From experience I've learned it's best to filter out the crap women and get to the one who give you less bullsh!t and less run-around.

Increasing your chances of success is the name of the game.

Here's my no-no list.

1.No cold approaches.

Unless i'm getting signals or she's a dime.Chances are I won't approach strange women on the street.

I stick to social settings and hook-ups through mutual accuaintances.

Why?Women are naturally defensive and they will give you a longer run-around then girls who have pu'd somewhere else.

2.Store-clerks.

I don't have to tell you why.

These lil' *****es are paid to be over-flirtacious skally-wags.She can look like Jessica Alba rubbing her perky lil' breasts all over me as she tries to fit a shirt on me....I wouldn't give her a second look.

Trust me,don't bother with working girls.


3.No dating hoes.

I only use promiscouis women for sex the way god intended.I don't court these types of women as they don't want to be courted.

They wanna be buttered up verbally then fvcked.Anything else and they will play you.

Other than the phone bill and maybe gas to go pick them up(and even that you should negotiate) don't spend a single dime on these b!tches.

Nathan,nothing,nada,zero money and dates. She puts out and you get gone.That's the way it is with hoes.


4.Women with baggage.

Divorcee,kids? A chic with a history of abuse? A chic on the re-bound?

Say no to all of them. These women are out to get and bury anything with testicles.


5.Older women.

I am not a prositute.

These chics are into the idea of being with a younger man rather than BEING with a younger man.They will use you and abuse then move on to the next man.

If you're smart you will get something out of these women and still not give them any burn.

Older chics I hurt on purpose they are all bicthes who wanna lash out..from my experience at least.

6.Feminazis.

Same as older chics.I hurt them on purpose. Women who think they are your equal-rather than some thing to be fawned over or your property are inherently evil.

Like 3-5 they are out to get men and they should only be used as sex-objects.


Beleive it or not that still leaves a lot of women to cover.

I'm left with women in my age group,who don't have baggage/negative intentions aren't just out for my wallet or non-sexual fling.

Now how can that be a bad thing? It might seem like i'm making generalizations and blanket statements.But you tell me what type of expereinces you've had with damaged goods?I'll bet my life it's usually negative.
 

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Good stuff - I can tell you're speaking from experience.

Well, Realnezz, the thing about everyone posting their horror stories is that misery loves company.

Too many guys come here and relate to the other guys who have been ****ed over by women. It's like they're not even here to learn about the game

That's why I made my own site about it!!!

Cheers!

Eric
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1. No Cold Approaches

Agreed. There's a lot of people who say taking risks is being a man. Uh, then I guess everyone should join army and go sacrifice my life for some oil.

2. Store Clerks

or waitresses/bartenders...service people. They're there to get tips or make a sell - notice how a car salesman is always so nice and willing to accomodate you till the bargaining battle or when you leave the store.

3. No dating hoes

At first I was confused at this thinking you meant prostitutes. But then thinking about it a bit, it means girls who seem overly slutty since they use their body as a bargaining chip to get boys to do stuff for them.


4. Women with baggage

It's kinda hard to tell if there's a woman with baggage. Infact most people have dating woes like normal people. Some girls I know keep it well hidden until the relationship has developed so it's too late to turn back. It's more like a matter how they handle the baggage. If they're the type that keep whining about events that happened more than 3 months ago or they have a belief that men are all evil, stay away.


5 and 6. Older Chicks and Feminazis

They're similar to above women with baggage.
 

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Good stuff bro.


7. For those around 18, no girls 2 yrs younger or more. They're stupid and inexperienced.

8. Pretty girls with bulges in the pants. You've seen em be4. It sure ain't camel toe, but u still sarged that man-girl. :D
 

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This site has gotten depressing to read...All these dudes crying about the same sh1t...Its like this DJ sh1t got to their heads...Don Juan wasnt even a real person either...All this talk of having an adventerious (sp) life and talking to all the women and being confident all the time got to people's heads, and when things dont go their way, they get upset...And people swear that you can make your life perfect like Don Juan, sh1t, I might as well train to become Batman or something...People need to realize that thats how life is, sometimes things go right, sometimes they go wrong...This perfect fantasy sh1t isnt helping anyone get anywhere, cause you have even people who have been on here for a long time who still complain and whatnot...You gotta except life for what it is and stop overanalyzing sh1t and roll with it...
 

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I agree 100% with this post and the replies. I think some very valid points have been raised here.
 
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I´ll add one to your list Realnezz.

9. Those super hot flashy chicks (the kind you see at the bar) that all the guys drool over.

They are a waste of freaking time and energy. Looks wear off real quick when you actually have to deal with someone on a daily basis. Their only agenda is male attention. (thanks Slikster for this one).

By the way, I think that feminazis are the worst type!
 

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^^I'd put them in the hoe-catergory.

Try to nail them don't spend money on them.
 

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i agree except for the cold approach.

I'll approach *****es EVERYWHERE..malls, college campuses, stores, bookstores...etc..

I'm just naturally aggresive like that...if i like something about her, ill let her know..whether she gives up the #'s or not....i could care less...
 

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I have to disagree with the sales clerk/waitress category.


Yes, their job is to sell a product/service but they are still human and if they happen to be attracted to a guy they are as good a target as anyone else. In fact, some of the best results I have gotten have been with chicks working at stores,resturants or places where they sit behind a cash register.

You just have to know when they are being nice and flirtatious to sell you something as opposed to giving you legitimate buying signals.

Also, I take issue with the older woman category. I think these women are less likely to play games than the younger ones based on personal experience.
 

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Originally posted by Silk_Slim
i agree except for the cold approach.

I'll approach *****es EVERYWHERE..malls, college campuses, stores, bookstores...etc..

I'm just naturally aggresive like that...if i like something about her, ill let her know..whether she gives up the #'s or not....i could care less...
I actually agreed very strongly with what Realnezz and Deathdealer said about cold approaching. I believe cold approaching scares off or puts off women.

Besides, I wouldn't want to date a woman who could give her number to a complete stranger. I figure she must be desperate, easy or have something else wrong with her. And I assume this is how most women view the guys who cold approach them.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
I actually agreed very strongly with what Realnezz and Deathdealer said about cold approaching. I believe cold approaching scares off or puts off women.

Besides, I wouldn't want to date a woman who could give her number to a complete stranger. I figure she must be desperate, easy or have something else wrong with her. And I assume this is how most women view the guys who cold approach them.
It all depends on ya mouthpeice. If you got that silk tongue, make her comfortable, her defense goes down.

But to each his own I guess, but that's totally not my style. I'll be an OLD man if i waited for the girl to come to me.
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
This site has gotten depressing to read...All these dudes crying about the same sh1t...Its like this DJ sh1t got to their heads...Don Juan wasnt even a real person either...All this talk of having an adventerious (sp) life and talking to all the women and being confident all the time got to people's heads, and when things dont go their way, they get upset...And people swear that you can make your life perfect like Don Juan, sh1t, I might as well train to become Batman or something...People need to realize that thats how life is, sometimes things go right, sometimes they go wrong...This perfect fantasy sh1t isnt helping anyone get anywhere, cause you have even people who have been on here for a long time who still complain and whatnot...You gotta except life for what it is and stop overanalyzing sh1t and roll with it...
Well put!

Posters new and old ought to chill...they ought to stop trying to be relationship perfectionists...
 

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I'm left with women in my age group,who don't have baggage/negative intentions aren't just out for my wallet or non-sexual fling.
I don't know what age group 'pimphop' is, but it appears to me you described all the women in my age group right there.(have baggage, out for cash or sex)
 

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I'm 21 turning 22 in a couple of weeks.

My age group would be 18-22 I guess.

Don't get me wrong they are all out looking for stability.But some are looking for you to floss or flat-out spend money on them while others just wanna have a good time.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
1. No Cold Approaches

Agreed. There's a lot of people who say taking risks is being a man. Uh, then I guess everyone should join army and go sacrifice my life for some oil.

Believe it or not, i know this 25 yr old virgin. Yes 25 yrs old. Guess what? He STILL is waiting for a girl to approach him. He spends his lonely nights getting high and downloading porn instead. I guess he's being a man too......

Meanwhile, I just racked up 5 phone numbers this past week, looks like i'll be having my hands full. ;)

Can't wait..... later.
 

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Where did I tell anyone not to approach women?

Cold approaches are when you approach women on the street without signals.

If you do that then that's fine.

I'm glad you got five numbers,get back to me in a few weeks and tell me how that turned out.
 

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Originally posted by Silk_Slim
Believe it or not, i know this 25 yr old virgin. Yes 25 yrs old. Guess what? He STILL is waiting for a girl to approach him. He spends his lonely nights getting high and downloading porn instead. I guess he's being a man too......

Meanwhile, I just racked up 5 phone numbers this past week, looks like i'll be having my hands full. ;)

Can't wait..... later.
I also know a 25 year virgin. He approaches every girl he sees, tries to chat them up and get their number, but never scores a single date. Women can sense his desperation a mile away and literally laugh in his face.

I think it depends a lot on the person. If you have scored 5 numbers, cold approaching is working well for you and you should stick to it, but personally speaking, I have never experienced or seen a positive result come of a cold approach outside a club.

Of course, I've seen guys get numbers and I've even had a few dates from cold approaches, but the women have been very questionable.
 

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Fawned over or your property?

Sh1t, why not just club 'em over the head and drag 'em into your cave?

Take what you want, but I like my gal to come with a brain.

No gal worth my time would put up with a lot of these archaic attitudes. I like gals with a bit of spirit. Not feminazis, but real women who have lives, thoughts, and passion.
 
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