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Master Don Juan
Today, I will list a few guidelines to look out for in people whether you're trying to get into a relationship or simply making friends. These are scanning methods.
I am a Senior in high school, and I have taken account over the years the trends of the people who typically have "Baggage." These tips consist of body language, figure, the way the dress, the way they talk, what they do, and what music they listen to.
Now, all of these are and SHOULD be Assumptions, until they are proven. Then you may make your judgement, I also don't recommend informing others about this as they may think of you as a judgmental assh*le. Keep this to yourself outside of SS.
Let's get down to the first one:
Body Language/figure:
I've noticed over the years, that body language is basically the cover of how everyone views you. And it's absolutely true.
Traits of low self-esteem
1. Slouching
2. Walking with their head down toward the ground
3. Not making sufficient eye contact - just looking at a person basically
4. Tone of voice, if it's low, they're stuttering, or even inaudible
5. Seems to walk in a fast pace/in a hurry all the time
6. Arms REALLY close to their body, hands in pockets all the time counts as well
7. A sad, angry, or poker face expression on their face all the time - not smiling
It is to be noted that some people with low self-esteem still manage to have proper body language and posture, remember that. :nono:
That brings us to our next one:
The way they dress:
The way people dress will reflect ones individuality.
The "Dark"(also known as Scene) kids
1. Consistent Band T-shirts - Usually of "Pierce the Veil" , "Sleeping with Sirens", "Suicide Silence" etc. Deathmetal/core and post-hardcore is the "Watch out" genre in my book
2. Wristbands/bracelets(thin ones are excluded) or anything that covers their wrists. One or two wristband/bracelet is fine, but multiple on one or both is to be advised. Band wristbands, like the above stated, are to be more noted.
3. Wearing Dark Colors(mainly Black) consistently. Heavy Black eye liner is on this list.
4. Make up, some is fine, but a boatload that you could rub off with a napkin just by throwing it at their face generally isn't good.
There is however two lists to this and is almost the opposite
The "Wh*res"
1. Wears short shorts all the time accompanied with mid drifts or tank tops -even when it's below freezing out
2. Always tan, I mean ALWAYS. - fake tan or not
3. Make up, - however the make up will be lighter rather than darker.
This type will basically dress very "revealing" to draw in attention.
Both of these types show a sign of low self-esteem.
Actions/who they are around:
The people who you surround yourself with are generally like you.
The Drama Draggers(Attention wh*res)
1. They have more guy friends than girls - sign of an attention wh*re with some baggage
2. Befriends all of their ex's - Ego
3. Always blames the other person in a time of trouble - never blames themselves or aids in the assistance of providing a solution until someone is "Blamed"
4. Gossips/spreads rumors an excessive amount with no boundaries - You'll know
5. Goes out and Party's a ton - sometimes ends up hooking up with someone
Now the opposite end of the spectrum:
The "Anti-Social" Ones
1. Usually has one or two people they generally hang out with - not social is the key here
2. Doesn't go out - stays home on the computer/whatever all day
3. Heavily involved in Social Media - Facebook, Tumblr,
3.1: Usually will post Depressing, "Life sucks" statuses. Or re blog a bunch of "band/meaningful" memes.
4. Usually clings to that One ex
5. Prefers text/chat rather than in person - usually the people who wont stop messaging you
6. Generally "Nice guys."
As the name states, these people generally avoid people.
There are some things that fit into ALL categories.
Universal Loser traits:
1. Not responsible - late, doesn't get things done, makes up excuses on why not
2. Lies a lot - afraid of punishment
3. Blames aspect of their body they cannot change - like their face
4. Doesn't do anything to get in shape if under/overweight - no self respect
5. Gets angry over small things
6. SUBSTANCE ABUSE - Excessive use of Alcohol/Weed/Pills etc. that isn't for medical purpose
7. Exotic/Excessive Body Modifications - such as tattoo's and piercings(generally Nose studs, Monroes, Eye brows, Belly button, basically anywhere but the ears)
As you may see, the "Wh*res" and "Drama Draggers" are generally the same people whilst the "Dark/Scene" people and "Anti-Social" ones are pretty much the same.
All of these are signs of low self-esteem(Baggage/Red Flags). Just remember, everyone has baggage it's just if the Pros out weigh the Cons.
These should just be a reminder and stuff to watch out for. One thing listed can mean nothing or something else, get to know the person first and make those assumptions into judgement. Don't jump to conclusions. :nono:
Also, Judge by Actions not words.
Obviously some of you may disagree with some of the things listed such as the Weed, or Piercing/tattoo part, but this is from what I have observed. A Don Juan, or confident person, shouldn't really be doing any of these.
That's all I have for now. Feel free to comment on what you think should be added that I might of missed.
I am a Senior in high school, and I have taken account over the years the trends of the people who typically have "Baggage." These tips consist of body language, figure, the way the dress, the way they talk, what they do, and what music they listen to.
Now, all of these are and SHOULD be Assumptions, until they are proven. Then you may make your judgement, I also don't recommend informing others about this as they may think of you as a judgmental assh*le. Keep this to yourself outside of SS.
Let's get down to the first one:
Body Language/figure:
I've noticed over the years, that body language is basically the cover of how everyone views you. And it's absolutely true.
Traits of low self-esteem
1. Slouching
2. Walking with their head down toward the ground
3. Not making sufficient eye contact - just looking at a person basically
4. Tone of voice, if it's low, they're stuttering, or even inaudible
5. Seems to walk in a fast pace/in a hurry all the time
6. Arms REALLY close to their body, hands in pockets all the time counts as well
7. A sad, angry, or poker face expression on their face all the time - not smiling
It is to be noted that some people with low self-esteem still manage to have proper body language and posture, remember that. :nono:
That brings us to our next one:
The way they dress:
The way people dress will reflect ones individuality.
The "Dark"(also known as Scene) kids
1. Consistent Band T-shirts - Usually of "Pierce the Veil" , "Sleeping with Sirens", "Suicide Silence" etc. Deathmetal/core and post-hardcore is the "Watch out" genre in my book
2. Wristbands/bracelets(thin ones are excluded) or anything that covers their wrists. One or two wristband/bracelet is fine, but multiple on one or both is to be advised. Band wristbands, like the above stated, are to be more noted.
3. Wearing Dark Colors(mainly Black) consistently. Heavy Black eye liner is on this list.
4. Make up, some is fine, but a boatload that you could rub off with a napkin just by throwing it at their face generally isn't good.
There is however two lists to this and is almost the opposite
The "Wh*res"
1. Wears short shorts all the time accompanied with mid drifts or tank tops -even when it's below freezing out
2. Always tan, I mean ALWAYS. - fake tan or not
3. Make up, - however the make up will be lighter rather than darker.
This type will basically dress very "revealing" to draw in attention.
Both of these types show a sign of low self-esteem.
Actions/who they are around:
The people who you surround yourself with are generally like you.
The Drama Draggers(Attention wh*res)
1. They have more guy friends than girls - sign of an attention wh*re with some baggage
2. Befriends all of their ex's - Ego
3. Always blames the other person in a time of trouble - never blames themselves or aids in the assistance of providing a solution until someone is "Blamed"
4. Gossips/spreads rumors an excessive amount with no boundaries - You'll know
5. Goes out and Party's a ton - sometimes ends up hooking up with someone
Now the opposite end of the spectrum:
The "Anti-Social" Ones
1. Usually has one or two people they generally hang out with - not social is the key here
2. Doesn't go out - stays home on the computer/whatever all day
3. Heavily involved in Social Media - Facebook, Tumblr,
3.1: Usually will post Depressing, "Life sucks" statuses. Or re blog a bunch of "band/meaningful" memes.
4. Usually clings to that One ex
5. Prefers text/chat rather than in person - usually the people who wont stop messaging you
6. Generally "Nice guys."
As the name states, these people generally avoid people.
There are some things that fit into ALL categories.
Universal Loser traits:
1. Not responsible - late, doesn't get things done, makes up excuses on why not
2. Lies a lot - afraid of punishment
3. Blames aspect of their body they cannot change - like their face
4. Doesn't do anything to get in shape if under/overweight - no self respect
5. Gets angry over small things
6. SUBSTANCE ABUSE - Excessive use of Alcohol/Weed/Pills etc. that isn't for medical purpose
7. Exotic/Excessive Body Modifications - such as tattoo's and piercings(generally Nose studs, Monroes, Eye brows, Belly button, basically anywhere but the ears)
As you may see, the "Wh*res" and "Drama Draggers" are generally the same people whilst the "Dark/Scene" people and "Anti-Social" ones are pretty much the same.
All of these are signs of low self-esteem(Baggage/Red Flags). Just remember, everyone has baggage it's just if the Pros out weigh the Cons.
These should just be a reminder and stuff to watch out for. One thing listed can mean nothing or something else, get to know the person first and make those assumptions into judgement. Don't jump to conclusions. :nono:
Also, Judge by Actions not words.
Obviously some of you may disagree with some of the things listed such as the Weed, or Piercing/tattoo part, but this is from what I have observed. A Don Juan, or confident person, shouldn't really be doing any of these.
That's all I have for now. Feel free to comment on what you think should be added that I might of missed.