"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fill your life.

playa99

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The one aspect of being a DJ I struggle with in particular is having a need to constantly be talking to a woman, regardless of whether they've rejected me or not... You can turn things round and eventually bang these women, but the most effective way is to go NC on them and make them wonder and anyway its counter productive to be talking to these women...

What i've realized is.. You gotta fill your life with other stuff and dedicate yourself to it 50000000000%.. I've started training for a marathon and looking at new business ventures and you know what I don't give these broads a second thought, I meet girls when i'm out so whats the rush..

It's getting that deep seated confidence that you do not need a woman right now, that women aren't the end of the world.. as much as they like to think they are.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dom1noe

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Yep. It's good to be bussy. I got to the other extreme though, where I have always something to do and there is no time left for me to meet new people. :-/
 
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