"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I watch UFC and pride religiously and i see guys who are my height, weigh less, and have bigger muscles then me. I don't understand how this is possible?

I'm a little over 6ft, weigh about 185, have about 10% BF, and i see guys who weigh 170 with bigger arms, legs, and shoulders then me.

When i cut, i lose tons (and i mean tons of mass) in my arms, shoulders, back, and legs (my stomach seems to retain the fat though)........my strength also suffers. When i gain, all of the weight goes directly (and i mean directly) to my stomach.

It's frustrating as he!!.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I change my routine alot.

I usually work my legs out twice a week and the rest of my body parts once.

Exercises:

Chest: Dumbbell press, bench press, incline, dumbbell flys.

Shoulders/back: Shrugs, military press, pull downs (machine), wide grip pull ups.

Triceps: Dips, tri extentions (machine), skull crunchers, and behind the neck dumbbell extensions.

Bi's: Preacher curls, hammer curls.

Legs: Leg press, calve raises, leg extensions, and squats.

5 days a week: i walk two miles, jump rope, and work on abs.

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My diet, i usually only eat breakfast and dinner. Like i said, i eat very little b/c my gut gets huge if not!
 

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Give an example of food you'd eat in a standard time, including approximate times and amounts.
 

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ok well a shorter person is going to be able to gain mass easier if you think about it, their muscles are shorter, easier to fill out, while yours being at 6ft at longer. they are probably more cut than you, the people that weight less, and have a better lean body weight in comparison to you. you also have to take into consideration bone size and if you have large bones and they have smaller bones, obviously their base will weight less than yours.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I already know what your saying, my question is how the he!! can someone have bigger muscles then me and weigh less? Being cut doesn't mean you have bigger muscles.
 

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I'm willing to bet you're not pushing anywhere near the weight you need to be pushing man.

Start making strength gains, and the muscle gains will come.
 

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I bench 305 and squat around 400. Keep in mind i lift alone without a spot!

Strength has nothing to do with size BTW!
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Strength has nothing to do with size BTW!
I'm calling bullshyt on that.
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
I watch UFC and pride religiously and i see guys who are my height, weigh less, and have bigger muscles then me. I don't understand how this is possible?

I'm a little over 6ft, weigh about 185, have about 10% BF, and i see guys who weigh 170 with bigger arms, legs, and shoulders then me.

When i cut, i lose tons (and i mean tons of mass) in my arms, shoulders, back, and legs (my stomach seems to retain the fat though)........my strength also suffers. When i gain, all of the weight goes directly (and i mean directly) to my stomach.

It's frustrating as he!!.
Eat RIGHT. Eat lots of meat, dairy, veggies, eggs, whatever, while keeping the carbs and fat to non crazy levels. HIGH PROTEIN.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being more cut gives an illusion of size remember. A 15" ripped arm looks bigger than a 15" flabby arm, for example. And hell, comparing yourself to people on TV is not the same as comparing yourself to people in real life. Guys who look huge on TV might be average compared to you if they had to stand next to you.

If you're saying they weigh less but have bigger muscles then you're talking physiologically impossible unless you have remarkably heavy bones or something.

Losing mass when you cut is just another reason to do away with bulking and cutting altogether. Keep your size and gradually fine it down.
 
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alot of these guys are juiced.

Also, you can train a muscle to look bigger even if not necessarily stronger.


Alot of wrestlers are very light but strong and cut as heck.
 
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as far as their training..they follow specified wrestler pyradization scheme.

one of my buds trains for this and switches things up every two weeks.

black belt in Ju jitsu.
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
I bench 305 and squat around 400. Keep in mind i lift alone without a spot!

Strength has nothing to do with size BTW!
good for you, no spot must feel great.
 
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