"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swede54

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Ok well heres the story, back in the towards the summer i was dating this girl. This guy was jealous and a ****, so he attacked me in a parking lot. Shes crazy too so she left me for him. I go to school with these two. This guy is a little ***** spread rumors about beating me up, and thinks im afraid of him. We are the same size, but he doesnt know how to fight for ****. I want revenge, i want to reclaim some of my respect, and show im not afraid of this faggot. What can i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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have a friend who dosent go to the same school beat him up while you watch, then say next time you wont be so lucky. this will show him you have power and he will respect you from then on
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by steveoo5
have a friend who dosent go to the same school beat him up while you watch, then say next time you wont be so lucky. this will show him you have power and he will respect you from then on

I was thinking more so of me staring him down and getting in his face. I know he wouldnt expect that.
 

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dude didnt you already make like 5 posts like this...
 

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Originally posted by Julian
dude didnt you already make like 5 posts like this...
nah specifically like this, just asking for advice. And if i did i apologize.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beat the **** out of him in front of the girl. dont get your friend to do it either that will make u look like u couldnt beat him up yourself.
 

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bone his sister...

and get over it..
the girl is crazy, and wants a guy who is a hero (sarcasm).
just find a new girl, a better girl, and if he happens to see you with her, just give him a sly smile.
 

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Originally posted by quest
bone his sister...

and get over it..
the girl is crazy, and wants a guy who is a hero (sarcasm).
just find a new girl, a better girl, and if he happens to see you with her, just give him a sly smile.
sweet i can be the evil bastard who wins then. Heros are the suck! Hes no hero, just a cowardice queer.
 

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How old are you?

I am guessing young, 16 perhaps?

If you are really going to bust him up, do it and stop running your mouth. Although, it is probably best to just let it slide and laugh it off (especially if he didnt beat you up like you claim).

I dont see why you are so angry at him if he is only telling lies?

Get over it.
 
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