"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speedo_meme

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Mighty, wouldn't that be a BIG show of jealousy? Lots of people would say doing that is AFC. I'd like to hear Rollo or tit guy's opinion on that....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she starts servicing him there at the gym, probably time to put a halt to it.

Well, gee if the people at the gym know she's "yours" gosh, you better step in. You know how important those people's opinions are.

I'm sure those people at the gym go home and talk for hours about how your girl is talking to some other chump at the gym. I'm sure the local news station is going to come and do a story on it, as well as the newspaper. It will be the buzz of the town! You'll be soooooo embarrassed. You'll be publically ridiculed, and laughed at as you walk down the street. The picture of shame!

You better bust his chops, get an assault conviction to stop the possible public embarrassment now!!
 

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haha, well, this is a small town and you know the gossip....

nah, I know I'm looking too far into it, just want to avoid the hassle, you know...

Should I tell her not to cut his hair? D@mn I overanalyze sh1t...
 

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The only "revenge" I would do is the next time Mr. Chump goes and talks to her, walk over, give your gal some serious kino or something, smile and ask the guy how he's doing. Nothing rattles a guy more than the other guy showing utter confidence and acting like nothing is bothering him.

And yep, quit analyzing. Paralysis by analysis.
 

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OK, I've been here awhile, disguised my ignorance, yada yada....
The glossary is disabled or something...

WHAT IS KINO? I know every other term except that.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kino is kinesthetic touch ... scientific term for touching.

I tire of all the abbreviations and acronyms, too. There are many I still don't know.
 

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what about joking with teh girl saying she can only cut his hair if she slips and cuts him or gives him a stupid haircut or something

- maybe say he has probably got a toupee

- make something funny which says do not cut the guys hair because he is a loser but does not show 'as much' insecurity

?????
 

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tha real....

here my quote on it....classix.....

Now, if your ***** in my ****/it's your ***** you check nigga/
Now let the Chevrolet slide/
As I dip a nigga trip to the south side, yeah...


from the D-R-E.....
 

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Re: tha real....

Originally posted by S.S.N. 318
here my quote on it....classix.....

Now, if your ***** in my ****/it's your ***** you check nigga/
Now let the Chevrolet slide/
As I dip a nigga trip to the south side, yeah...


from the D-R-E.....

A) What the h*ll was that? Sorry, I don't speak gangsta.

B) This board is for those 25 and over, so you don't belong posting here. Maybe someone younger in the other boards could figure out your jibberish.
 

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This problem has been solved, and I sure don't need advice from a wigga spittin 1992 Dre lines....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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