"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fighting Over Girls

CoRVeTTe6699

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yo whats up, thanks for reading my post. i got a quick question...

i met this girl on the Internet in a chatroom and i chilled with her.. she was pretty hot.. after i hung out with her the 1st time she called me up and asked me to call some guy and tell him off b/c he kept pranking her ... i told her i didnt want to get involved and i also told her to ignore him cuz hes an a$$hole and what he's doin is baby sh1t...

now i dont know if i said the right thing? should i have called and picked a fight with the kid? i dont want to go arguing with people..and im sure you dont ethier... the thing is .. when i met her i acted like i was tough.. i dont want her to think im a p*ssy..(i dont fight ppl for stupid reasons - i fight for a cause thats worth it)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NRM

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You did the right thing.

I remember reading somewhere on a list of things that girls should know, it was something like "Don't ask us to beat up one of your guy friends, we might end up doing it."

It isn't your problem. You can advise that she do something about it such as block his number or whatever. Besides, you aren't her bouncer, you're the guy that wants to date her. If you two were already dating for a while and he did something serious that could possibly hurt her, sure step in, but this is just prank calling and she's asking for too much.
 

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You did the right thing in my opinion also. You haven't known her all that long and it really isn't your problem.
 

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You overanalyse too much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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U did the right thing, when i saw the title, first thought was its not worth it. It is not worth it. Do not fight over girls.
 

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Not to sound like a broken record, but yea, you did the right thing mate

Dont do her dirty work

...and girls are never worth fighting over

unless youre married, and we dont have to worry about that on this board:D

~Yank
 

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yeah .. u did the right thing.. one time i allmost got in a serious fight over a chick .. the next day she broke up with me.. stuff like this best not to get involved... if he bugz her sugest the athorities, if it comes to it..
 
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