"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fight with a girl

floydtheater07

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So, long story short, I got in a fight with this girl who is my ex, but now my friend. Anyway, I was stupid in that I immediately apologized, and she got annoyed and blocked me (this was on AIM).


Any idea on what I should do once she wants to tlak again? Should I be honest and show that I am also pissed, should I just tell her we'll just let it go...? I dunno how to handle these things so that I don't continue to annoy her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs

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Ahh, the good old..

"O fu*k me, i screwed up, sorry, o sh*t, I got blocked, d'oh"

First, wait, depending on the fight, it could take more then a week for things to cool down.

Once you talk to her, you MUST be able to get her to the state of where you can talk to her about what happened in a humane manner.

After that, wipe your brain and life goes on ^^.
 
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