Wow Pook...I've just started reading this site and this is by far the most interesting and motivating article I've read. I'm your average nice guy and now striving to do something about it. I'm going out tonite with your inspirations and my new attitude of action. Thanks Pook
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fifteen Lessons
- Thread starter Pook
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Absolutely excellent!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Bump. Can't let this (and lifeforce's add-on) go quite yet.
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bump bump bump! pook's the man
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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AMAZING
Pook describes Point A and Point B, AFC and DJ, brilliantly, but doesn't discuss how to get from one to the other.
Nowhere does he reveal how we are to make the necessary quantum leap, that fundamental shift in our innermost selves, occur.
Without that, all the techniques, all the lifestyle, all the ACTION, in the world is for naught, because it will be nothing but mimicry, knowledge regurgitated based on logic.
Is it any wonder that most can only preach as Pook does instead of practicing what he preaches?
Nowhere does he reveal how we are to make the necessary quantum leap, that fundamental shift in our innermost selves, occur.
Without that, all the techniques, all the lifestyle, all the ACTION, in the world is for naught, because it will be nothing but mimicry, knowledge regurgitated based on logic.
Is it any wonder that most can only preach as Pook does instead of practicing what he preaches?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Some very, very solid info in there. Okay, as prose, it falls short of what it tries to be, but the message is golden.
Can you please re-upload that or share it again? I haven't read the post yet but I'll read it in the morning.
I have a feeling if I read it all tonight I'll probably lose sleep from the excitement of reading it. Pook is a damn genious I tell you, as well as Ross Jeffries, David Deangelo, A-unit, TheInfamousCBear, Swinggcat, Gunwitch and many others that I can mention. They are my mentors.
Edit: New Link http://s8.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=2JHZLQ9EN2MER0Z1B6B2P7Y70Z
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Im bumping this thread for what it is - life changing. Any people who have not read it should. The legendary pook huh. Its a pity we dont see him around anymore (mayb hes working on new material or the one i prefer is that he is finally living his life and enjoying women and he is happy).
Thank you pook you literally changed my life i mean actually changed it.
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Cheers
Thank you pook you literally changed my life i mean actually changed it.
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Cheers
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Don Juan
A favorite of mine, I'm giving it a well deserved bump!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.