"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Field tested opener ...

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Don Juan
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Hey guys .. last week I watched The Pick Up Artist, and it inspired me to go out and approach a lot. Even tough I don't usually memorize some opener and make the approaches without the doubt, I started to improvise some opener in my head, as I was in field, and one of them worked ( number close ) ..

I will tell you the way it worked for me .. and I wish you luck. I went to the dance floor .. watched for any target, and recognized a 4set. I didn't really pushed my self to do the approach, but I did the 3 sec. rule which works anytime. I did body rocking and this is how it went :

PUA : Hey guys I want to ask you a question. Do you brush your hair before or after you shower.

The whole set : After (giggles)

PUA : Nice , thanks :D ( than i did the best friend test ) Wow do you guys are best friend or something ...

Set : Yeah , good friends . Whyyy ?? :p

PUA : Cause you make the same face expression. Let me make you a test :D Do you all use the same shampoo ?? :D

Set : Nooooo .... hhahhahahaha :D

Then one of the girls stared to grab my hand and introduce to her friends.
and so it went :D ( I number closed her)

And something else ... I wore my sock in the wrong way, and I believe they brought me luck :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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