Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Field Reports #2 - Past History in School

Vigilante7

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Alright, lemme explain, i need some motivation / insight that im doing well but at the same time constructive criticism

Basically, i go to a small catholic school and im ing grade 11, i went in a all boys school (i KNOW!) from grade 5-10 and then i needed a change, cause when you dont have girls in your school, you rarely think about them, and i would focus on sports and friends

This year, i entered the school and made a horrible impression in my grade by being way too ****y and looking insecure, i fuked up badly cause of this dumbazz kid who kept on teasing me on football. Then i made friends with him and have changed since then. Im 6'1, good looking, good build, but because im new i seem unconfident........and i was really pissed cause HB9 in out grade who is a damn fine latina with nice tits, nice azz, nice personality ect....gave me MAJOR signs of interest in the beginning of the year (i only found out this in Dec when school started in Sep...FUKK) anyway, she would LOOK at me ALWAYS in one of my classes and i didnt make any moves, then i found out my good friend was her ex, and my friend was her new boyfriend. Great, hottest girl in grade was taken, then im thinking about next is HB8.....weeak grade, before i get the balls to even talk to her (FUK, she was showing some interest in me without talking LOL) she is dating a kid on my soccer team......

Fastfoward to March, i make excuses like Acne and no cell phone for girls in my school and outside...then i have exams which take even longer....

Now Grade 11 is fukking boring, no parties, no get together or rarely.....while Grade 12 is very nice with alot of parties and HOT girls....i become friends (somewhat) with the hottest girls in Grade 12 and naturally because of the fact that im in grade 11, they look down upon me (im gonna try, but i can tell by their attitude)....so i still seem insecure / unconfident / boring because no one makes an effort to talk to you, so even though i make the effort its still hard

Anyway today, monday, i kept on saying dont pvssy out, march break starts friday, get some numbers soon....so i said i would approach 2 HB8's in grade 10....well perfect oppurunity.....partial fukk up

The lunch room is packed, completely full, so my friends are sitting beside (not with) these HB's and there is a space in between them,,,,i pvssy out for 15 minutes and talk to my friends while these 2 girls talk to HB9.5 (perfect blonde !) and UG ....so these 2 leave and i use the "I need a female opinion"....and use the Seattle opener but alter it a bit, but the problem is...i fukking stutter twice and im sure they can sense it, anyway i talk to them for 15 minutes and i could tell they were disinterested at the end of it (they call their male friend over FUKKK!!)

So i leave....anyways, a useless rant and not even a field report, but i need some assurance that im on the right path....

I mean im good looking, good build ect, but this dosent mean sh1t f you cant even hold a convo cause if ur nervous......

So wats the best way for me to talk to them again, without them thinking that im clingy? !! Fukk, still pissed off

ive read the bible and know this sh1t, but lack of experience makes me AFC in convo.....:( :mad:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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buckwheat18

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Alright, lemme explain, i need some motivation / insight that im doing well but at the same time constructive criticism

Allright, I will be honest with you and give you my views.


Anyway today, monday, i kept on saying dont pvssy out, march break starts friday, get some numbers soon....so i said i would approach 2 HB8's in grade 10....well perfect oppurunity.....partial fukk up

Bad, Bad AFC! You are being to hard on yourself that's why your blowing these opportunities my friend. Stop using these negative thoughts now,! there makeing you sick and they will get you nowhere. (don't act ****y!.. but think this) before approaching: I'm such a sexy beast!, i'm gonna get a **** load of phone numbers, and maybe just maybe if there lucky I might give em a phone call... I know you like the sound of that better! So start doing just that your confidence will flow nicely. You need to develop a mindset that every women finds you sexy and then you will become. I suggest touching up on the bible a little more.



So i leave....anyways, a useless rant and not even a field report, but i need some assurance that im on the right path....

Your on the right path, just kinda sitting over on the side...

I mean im good looking, good build ect, but this dosent mean sh1t f you cant even hold a convo cause if ur nervous......

Your absolutely right

So wats the best way for me to talk to them again, without them thinking that im clingy? !! Fukk, still pissed off

Who the fvck cares what they think, you can't control there mind, just there IL, depending.

ive read the bible and know this sh1t, but lack of experience makes me AFC in convo.....:( :mad:

Ok, so improve...go do it!..start first with maybe the less attractive girls like hb's 5or 6 's to gain confidence in convo if your as bad as you described. Good luck!
 

Vigilante7

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major props

im randomly starting convos with ANY GIRL....when im at home, i picture these convos and they go perfectly ...... like approachin this and that....and my lackluster experience makes me SUPER AFC>>>!!!

Im feeling confident though.......thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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