Hey guys,
I'd like to share some of the experiences I've had the last couple of days:
#1: I was waiting for a train and I walked up to a girl who was waiting there as well. I asked her something about the train schedule (just a pretense) and then I started asking her things like where she lives, studies, etc. It went pretty well. She then sat next to me in the train and we talked till we arrived at out destination. She gave me her address (she lives close to me) so I decided to pay her a visit a couple of days later. She opened the door and I told her I was going for a walk and I asked her to come with me (this shows that I have a life of my own). She said okay 'but had to be back in a couple of minutes, as she planned to visit her boyfriend later that evening'. She hadn't tell me about a bf before, so I was not sure what to do, but as she invited me in, I decided to test my DJing skills on this girl. Actually I had lost all my interest in her by that moment. We talked about some stuff and I said: 'That's the price you gotta pay for having a bf... you're expected to show up at the weirdest moments' and she replied she was joining me for a walk anyway. I was pissed off at first (didn't show it though) but I wanted to test my skills so I talked to her and stuff, asking her about the things she likes and things she did last summer. I wanted her to be the topic of discussion, but she kept asking me questions too, like 'How do you feel about that?' Then I'd answer quickly and ask her another question, so she'd be the topic of discussion again. At the end of our conversation she said she wanted to see my apartment, but I really didn't want her to come in since she has a boyfriend and probably I was going to be LJBFd anyway. I told her I had to go to the movies and said that she could drop by another time.
#2: I rode my bicycle to the town center and some hot Spanish chick asked me directions. I asked her what she was doing here and stuff and then I offered her a lift. Since she didn't really know the concept of a bicycle; she didn't know how to hop on so I told her I'd walk her to town. We continued to talk about school, this town, clubbing, etc. I was being ****y and funny to her - but due her poor knowledge of the English language she didn't understand most of what I was saying (oh I really hate that). Eventually she probably got bored because she said 'we're almost there, you can go now' and then I asked her where she's staying - appears she's living in the same building as me. But as I said, her interest level probably dropped to an absolute zero, so I won't give this one another try.
Hehe yeah, both encounters haven't been really successful, but at least I got to acquire some more experience.
I'd like to share some of the experiences I've had the last couple of days:
#1: I was waiting for a train and I walked up to a girl who was waiting there as well. I asked her something about the train schedule (just a pretense) and then I started asking her things like where she lives, studies, etc. It went pretty well. She then sat next to me in the train and we talked till we arrived at out destination. She gave me her address (she lives close to me) so I decided to pay her a visit a couple of days later. She opened the door and I told her I was going for a walk and I asked her to come with me (this shows that I have a life of my own). She said okay 'but had to be back in a couple of minutes, as she planned to visit her boyfriend later that evening'. She hadn't tell me about a bf before, so I was not sure what to do, but as she invited me in, I decided to test my DJing skills on this girl. Actually I had lost all my interest in her by that moment. We talked about some stuff and I said: 'That's the price you gotta pay for having a bf... you're expected to show up at the weirdest moments' and she replied she was joining me for a walk anyway. I was pissed off at first (didn't show it though) but I wanted to test my skills so I talked to her and stuff, asking her about the things she likes and things she did last summer. I wanted her to be the topic of discussion, but she kept asking me questions too, like 'How do you feel about that?' Then I'd answer quickly and ask her another question, so she'd be the topic of discussion again. At the end of our conversation she said she wanted to see my apartment, but I really didn't want her to come in since she has a boyfriend and probably I was going to be LJBFd anyway. I told her I had to go to the movies and said that she could drop by another time.
#2: I rode my bicycle to the town center and some hot Spanish chick asked me directions. I asked her what she was doing here and stuff and then I offered her a lift. Since she didn't really know the concept of a bicycle; she didn't know how to hop on so I told her I'd walk her to town. We continued to talk about school, this town, clubbing, etc. I was being ****y and funny to her - but due her poor knowledge of the English language she didn't understand most of what I was saying (oh I really hate that). Eventually she probably got bored because she said 'we're almost there, you can go now' and then I asked her where she's staying - appears she's living in the same building as me. But as I said, her interest level probably dropped to an absolute zero, so I won't give this one another try.
Hehe yeah, both encounters haven't been really successful, but at least I got to acquire some more experience.