"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok, this girl is about a 8.7.Today was 3rd day of school.1st day i noticed this girl starin me in the eyes for a few seconds(happened a few times).2nd day she was sittin next to me and gave me a complete 3 second stare down 1-2 feet face to face.Today,we got assigned seats and she was sittin across the room but in front of me and to the side(easy to see each other).Anyways she again gave me a lookin this time after bout 2seconds she looks away down at her desk then bites her lip and goes into a gaze like she was daydreamin!If thats not a sign of interest im not a DJ! So after class I start the convo as we walk towards door.(Remember some of the sentences mite not be word for word but close enough,hard to remember every detail. I know a few lines by heart because i use em alot..)

ME-Wasup
HER-Ha,nuttn how bout you?
ME-Haha, same here...
ME-So you like this class?
HER-Its alrite, i guess it'll do....
ME-Hey, can I talk to ya for a sec?(Guide towards wall.)
ME-So, wats really up?
HER-Huh, what you mean?
ME-Cmon,I see you lookin at me alot,im not one to just sit around starin....
HER-Well, your a pretty attractive guy, and when we held eye contact I just felt drawn into you.
ME-Ha,now it comes out.....
ME-You gotta boyfreind?
HER-Naa,u?
ME- Ha,very funny.Your a jokester...is that what you look for in guys?
HER-Funny guys are always a plus....
ME-So what do you look for in a boyfreind?(I will remember this for a conversation in the future when i use a lil ss on her)
HER-Funny,Exciting guys who are laid back,being good lookin doesnt hurt either....
ME-Ever been in love?Like you know when you feel just an instant connection with someone you've just met?
HER-(After a few second stare)Ive never been in "real" love....although ive liked some guys alot.....
ME-Are you lookin to be?
HER-(She absolutely looked like she was just eatin it up...she didnt say anything)
ME-Here, take a pen out and write your number on my arm....

Ok, so I got the number and gave her a hug and sayed the goodbyes....

So how do you guys think I did? Remember theres 6 minutes in between classes so I couldnt just keep it goin.I am extremely proud of myself,but im always open to little things i couldve done better.....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounds like you were really smooth and confident in everything you said. Nice work.
 
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Yea, im glad with how I handled myself during the convo......good to see that you guys think I did a good job.
 
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NICE.

lol i always skip convo more or less and just do what i have to do to get the number. but man u had confidence falling out of ur ass with this one. verrrrry nice.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice, but remember I HAVE A STICKY FOR A REASON ;)
 
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Oh, my bad. Well ima try the same opener/format tommorow wit another girl I want....Ill post it...Best not miss it!!!!!!
 
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Was nice, the whole deal was with the guiding to seclusion.
gg.
 
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Guys....if you have a hottie chekin you out for sure.....this format works 100%.....truly easy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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congrats congrats and u made her get out a pen too. haha.
 
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u did a good job capturing her interest

its a nice way to start a convo and make it interesting :up:
 
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Originally posted by benassi
not bad not bad .. the only thing is wasn't that kinda awkward for the 1st time talkin lol ... and MOST girls wouldn't admit to findin you attractive even if they did lol theyd feel embaressed, fcuk her, she wants it. bad.
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Well, it wasnt awkward becuz i knew she was diggin me with the signs she wa givin,i just had to grab da balls.She prolly said she liked me without waiting to tell me because
1.Shocked I was so open
2.Didnt wanna say no, and ruin it....
 
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