"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Field Report

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I don't usually post feild reports partly because lately I've been having a lot of go nowhere cold approaches, blow outs and just an ocassional fool's mate and this was sort of a wild situation. I'm posting this FR just show that something can come out of nothing. So I was at my regular club tonight and I open a few sets but they don't go anywhere. It's pushing closing time. I see my target HBbrunet, who I noticed earlier in the night stumbling around drunk, sitting with her hot blonde friend. So I open HBbrunette and she's friendly but so drunk as to be incoherent. So not much conversation ensues. Her blonde friend is on her cell and Hbbrunet says she's talking to a friend (turns out it's another hot blonde in the club) to meet them for a ride. They kind of wander off and a few feet ahead. I reopen HBbrunet very briefly, but she's sort of incoherent and I eject.

It's a little after 2am and the lights come on and the bar is about to close but a lot of people are still hang around. I noticed the three girls ended up standing near the bar in front of me, so I take this as an IOI. I reopen HBbrunet and number close her. She's cute but I'm thinking wow her blonde friends are really hot. Well the bars closing so I leave and go home. Around 3:00am I get a call from HBbrunete asking me to come party with her at this other club. This club normally closes at 2 but she says they know people there and they opened the bar up for her and her friends. My curiousity gets the best of me and I tell her I'll come out. She keeps calling me on my cell as I'm on my way. I get there and her and her 2 hot friends are there and about 3 guys I assume run the club..one of them unlocks the door. These guys are aging c0cky alpha males, but they seemed focused on the two blondes and kind of wander around after I show up. So I sit down with HBbrunet and within a few moments she says her friend is calling her over. I know this is trouble.. The hottest blonde (HBLeader) who appears to be the group leader comes over to me and introduces herself, then the other blonde and Hbbrunet come over too. I know I've been c0ckblocked or I didn't meet someone's approval. I tried to turn the situation around knowing right away what was coming but it wasn't happening. I recall HBleader saying"we have a lot of bad guys in our lives so we're going to lay off the d!ck and just go home and have a girls night..." Yeah notice she brings up the sex talk, so I know where her mind was. HBbrunet is saying she'll call me tomorrow, then she says call her tommorrow and is acting apologetic and saying the manager wasn't cool with me being there. So I leave and think if I was Brad Pitt the girls would've probably had a 3-some and the hot blondes are probably going to be later shagging those guys that were there.

Well this might seem like more of a FU than FR but it all stemmed from a number close. So don't think things can't happen from cold approaches. The brunet was cute but these blondes were seriously hot. Obviously they were party girls but you couldn't tell it by looking at them really. So the potential was there for some good times. Any theories on why this turned out bad so fast are welcome. Maybe I'll call HBbrunet later on and maybe not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lebRambo

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you SHOULD call her later, cause if you don't you might have missed out on some easy pvssy. it was good either way, its experience, and no experience is bad.
 

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In such a small-scale social situation, you should have entered and introduced yourself to everyone present. Had you made friends with the manager immeadiately, he wouldn't have been uncomfortable with your presence. Even when you saw what was coming, you just waited for it. Getting invited to a closed club is like getting invited to a house where a few friends are hanging out. You can't just ignore everybody there except for the girl you are trying to fvck.
 

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Good replies. BrotherAP that was my thinking walking into the club, but the guy that opened the door for me said "you're here for HBbrunet (I assume she mentioned who i was when they saw me at the door)? She needs to get her drunk azz out of here..." So I was under the impression I'd be able to quickly extract her. But yeah in hindsight I probably should of ignored HBbrunet and chatted up everyone else.
 

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I did leave at that point. I saw what was coming. The lesson here was that ****blocks can come fast and hard and can't always be disarmed. I was just going for a number close and this party opportunity came out of it suddenly, so this was just to show the cold approach doubters that opportunities can come out of CA's. I don't post it as a success just info for others to consider. I respect your succeses GGTW but some of us are late 20's and 30's and we dont get the fool's mates like we did when we were around 19. Keep the FR coming..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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