RandomGuy22
Don Juan
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- Oct 11, 2003
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Sup guys, well i went on a date last night w/ this girl who i approached. She showed a strange IL.. it oscillated through the night.
I pick her up, and we go to get coffee and chill and talk.
She tell sme about her ex b/f, balh blah we talk. Turns out she's a big drinker. (i'm don't drink or smoke.. at all, it's not that i'm a nerd or w/e, or don't ever get invited to.. i just don't like it) so that kidna worries me... it's like this girl is outa my league, b/c 1 she's hella hot, and 2 her ex-b/f was like homecoming king, who all the chicks in our school think is hella hot or w/e... =(. But during the date, i kept my cool and remained confident, like she was the one who was priveleged to be out w/ me, not the other way around. She offered to pay for her own cofffee, and i suavely said "nah it's on me"
After our coffee, we talked and i asked if sh ewanted to shoot some pool. She said she wasn't a big pool fan , but she'd watch me play. I told her nah that's cool, we can find somethign else. So we went and saw a movie. (yes horrible.. but it was late and we're not 18 so... that's about it). I didn't go for the arm around her int he movie b/c.. A) i learned w/ my last g/f that it's actually hella uncomfortable and B) it was our first date, and keep in mind this girl was pretty mucha cold approach.
The movie ends and i take her home, we had good conversation pretty much the whole night, and on her porch.. she asked me what iw as doing tomorrow (today) night. I told her that a friend of mine was coming into town, and we might go to a party, and asked if she woudl wanna go. She said "yeah definetley", so i said i'd call her around 7 or 8 today. I got agoodbye Hug, and here'st he thing.. i think i coulda gone for the kiss. she had strong eye contact and was almost like she wanted it.... grrrr.. if we hang otu tonight, i'm going for it.
ANyway, here's my dilema... i'm not as experienced as this girl is. She's probably had sex (dunno, but i'm pretty sure) and i'm still a virgin. She is like a party girl, who still has great gardes and is really smart, she's in like an entirely different clique than i am. but i am friends w/ all her friends, and they all think i'm cool, so i get a good social proof.. Do i need to just stay confident and play it cool? thx
I pick her up, and we go to get coffee and chill and talk.
She tell sme about her ex b/f, balh blah we talk. Turns out she's a big drinker. (i'm don't drink or smoke.. at all, it's not that i'm a nerd or w/e, or don't ever get invited to.. i just don't like it) so that kidna worries me... it's like this girl is outa my league, b/c 1 she's hella hot, and 2 her ex-b/f was like homecoming king, who all the chicks in our school think is hella hot or w/e... =(. But during the date, i kept my cool and remained confident, like she was the one who was priveleged to be out w/ me, not the other way around. She offered to pay for her own cofffee, and i suavely said "nah it's on me"
After our coffee, we talked and i asked if sh ewanted to shoot some pool. She said she wasn't a big pool fan , but she'd watch me play. I told her nah that's cool, we can find somethign else. So we went and saw a movie. (yes horrible.. but it was late and we're not 18 so... that's about it). I didn't go for the arm around her int he movie b/c.. A) i learned w/ my last g/f that it's actually hella uncomfortable and B) it was our first date, and keep in mind this girl was pretty mucha cold approach.
The movie ends and i take her home, we had good conversation pretty much the whole night, and on her porch.. she asked me what iw as doing tomorrow (today) night. I told her that a friend of mine was coming into town, and we might go to a party, and asked if she woudl wanna go. She said "yeah definetley", so i said i'd call her around 7 or 8 today. I got agoodbye Hug, and here'st he thing.. i think i coulda gone for the kiss. she had strong eye contact and was almost like she wanted it.... grrrr.. if we hang otu tonight, i'm going for it.
ANyway, here's my dilema... i'm not as experienced as this girl is. She's probably had sex (dunno, but i'm pretty sure) and i'm still a virgin. She is like a party girl, who still has great gardes and is really smart, she's in like an entirely different clique than i am. but i am friends w/ all her friends, and they all think i'm cool, so i get a good social proof.. Do i need to just stay confident and play it cool? thx