“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Today i did a pick up at my school, well i ATTEMPTED to: here's what went down:

ok im sitting in front of the building at school waiting for my class to start. all of a sudden this girl comes up and sits on the exact same bench as i do and im thinking: wow this chick looks cool i think ill talk to her...but then my fears start to kick in (the worst one for me is that i won't have anything to say, since im normally shy and don't start being my funny self and make people laugh till after i meet them, or they give me material to joke about, its hard for me to come up with stuff out of nowhere sometimes..i have no problem with being rejected...i just feel stupid if im on the bus or something and i try to talk to a chick i won't have anything to say and look stupid trying to talk to her, even though, it is my imagination...

ok thats beside the point. I break the ice by asking if she's taking a quick break because she starts smoking (normally i don't go for girls who smoke but she looked alright). ok so anyway i ask what she's doing and she says that she is waiting for her astronomy class (she is not a geek because science is a requirment to graduate/transfer from my college) so we talk for a bit and a couple of fruitcakes (thats what i call gay people) came and sat between us (yes i know that i should have gotten up and sat next to her but i didn't i don't know why) so she's about to leave and even though we only talked for a few minutes i stopped her

and asked her name, and she asked for mine and i said "let me call u sometime", but she said that she doesn't think she can do that. and she left....even though i got rejected (which i am fine with, like i said the only thing im afraid of is running out of things to say, and having an interview instead of a good time (which is something that is a no no when talking to females from what i heard)...especially if the conversation doesn't go anywhere and is awkward, which is the case...yes i know i am overanalyzing,but at least i tried..my question is would u have gone for the number close? im just curious about ur opinions..thanks y'all because if i had to do it over again, i would have gone for it again, and also would have found a way around the two stooges that blocked me
 
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oops can u bump to don juan discussion board?
 

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Originally posted by la-migra-is-after-me
oops can u bump to don juan discussion board?
*Laces up soccer cleat* "The snap, the hold, the kick...It's good!"
 

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First I must commend you for putting forth the effort. You were able to overcome your internal fear! :)

Anyhow, I believe her reasoning for not giving the phone number was due to a lack of rapport. Next time try cracking some ****y and funny jokes, and move closer to your target (by the sounds of it, she was at one end of the bench, and you were at the other).

I applaud you for overcoming your fear and talking to this girl. It's all internal.. all of those doubts, insecurities, and beliefs are WEAK! Good Job on the attempt!
 

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Good effort! I just got back from a choke in the gym this morning so youre one up on me :D
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by drixsa
someone is having too much fun being a moderator
Yep. :D Better to have fun then go "not ANOTHER freaking post to move...Lousy posters." ;)
 

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Youre doin' fine Crazy

Crazykid's new seduction style : Mod Seduction -"Youre gonna be Moved To: My Bedroom, and Closed, before I post this Pole. :D
 

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Re: Youre doin' fine Crazy

Originally posted by Walden
Crazykid's new seduction style : Mod Seduction -"Youre gonna be Moved To: My Bedroom, and Closed, before I post this Pole. :D
You forgot: I have to delete your panties, split your legs, and merge us. :D
 

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Search for posts by pimpologist.

He's got some great info on how to start conversations with anyone... more specifically women, but talking to guys is the same except your not trying to have sex with them ;) unless you are... but you probably wouldn`t be here then now would you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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