"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chamber36

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Just had a whack night. I found a cuban wing who is all about pvssy.

First we went round the neighborhood, looking for a nice place to find pvssy. After a while we decided to go to the center the city and before we tried to get into the clubs, we smoked a cig outside the club. I look over my shoulder and my wing is walking off, so I follow. I go and sit next to him and notice he is across from 3 Hb's from England(my favorite country of slvts).

Anyway, once I started talking to one of them, I looked straight at her lips and she got all giggly. I know for sure I could have got a kiss right then & there, without even saying a word. So all I could think of was how to go for it. I wondered if a compliment would have been too try-hard, but before I knew it, some swedish arab walks up to us and starts talking, showing a piece of paper that he had a table in the club with €1000,00 and we could all go inside and drink watever the fvck we want. Sadly I was sold, because I am broke as fvck, and I shook his hand, as did the ladies. By this time I knew I had failed and I looked at my cuban friend, basically trying to contain his rage. He told the swedish guy to basically fvck off from the group, basically like a guard dog. Pretty animalistic.

Soon as that happened one of the girls decided they had to go. The way the girl shook my hand I could tell she was pretty upset she had to go, as was I. It feels good to know that her immediate attraction to me was the same as mine to her. I felt like she was so into me, all I could do by talking was fvck it up, because my value was so high from the start. Sad the way it ended, but still educational and inspiring.

I have been out of the game for a long damn time, so although this may be a pointless story to some, it is important for me that I went out there and got the positive feedback that I wanted.

Next time I
#1: Will go for the kiss close faster
#2: NOT shake any intruder's hand no matter what they promise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheException

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Could have said this:

"Hey...I just think your so goddamn cute. Here, put your number in my phone(hand her phone) and we ll go out for drinks sometime".
 
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