"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scars

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Forgive me, because I'm still a little drunk. And I also have a girlfriend, so a feel a little bad about all that I did tonight, but it happens.

Went to my friends birthday party. She's a good friend of mine, cute girl. So of course a lot of her cute friends were there.

My eye catches this one dark haired girl. I find out through a friend she is from Norway(sp?). I introduce myself and at first this girl is kind of acting like a b!tch. I really thought she had no interest at all. At the same time, I also remembered all the time I encountered foreigners, and sometimes this act this way. And while it may seem rude to us, it's just how they are. So I kept the conversation going. I tried pretending like I was suprised she was a foreign exchange student, so I kept asking her a bunch of questions about her country. I then began to start teasing her about her accent and other various things. I can't really remember specifically but I was on top of my game. I was also touching her every chance I got, and she was loving it. I was covering her eyes. Grabbing her hair. Pushing her playfully. All this. There was a moment where I kept telling her "I have a girlfriend, get away from me!" (playfully, of course) and I pushed her back. Low and behold, this girl grabbed me and forced her lips upon mine. Man, do I love foreign girls! Me being the man that I am, I couldn't resist. So I kissed her back. Funny thing is, she was a really horrible kisser. But she was just so damn cute, and there was something about her.. everyone was giving me props about how I made out with the foreign girl. Apparently she came here and a lot of guys have "tried" but yet I came in and gamed her effortlessly. In fact, I even went back for seconds. Eventually the time came and she left.

Next girl, was a girl I knew from HS. Not much of a story here. She sat behind me in Geo class. I pretty much started talking to her, secluded her.. brushed her hair behind her and said "I've always wanted to kiss you.." so we had a nice little make out session. Deffinately a better kisser. But still didn't have my heart as much Norway girl.

Then.. some other girl. The girl I actually ended up banging out tonight. I think the fact that I was seen making out with other girls, being on top of my game and being a flirt deffinately helped me here. This girl KNEW I had a girlfriend. I even told her. We talked for awhile, introduced myself. We had one of those heart to hearts (rapport), she shared some personal stories and so did I. The whole time I was hugging her and touching her, comforting her. Then the time came. I was horny. I looked her in the eyes, and I knew she wanted it. So we made out, and I was touching her all over. Things started getting a little.. eh.. so I stopped and asked her if she wanted to go to my car. Same process. Started making out. Hands wandered, and one thing lead to another. There were a few pauses. She asked about my girlfriend a couple times and I just shrugged it off or said whatever and just kept doing my thing. Then we sat in my car listening to the radio and talked for a bit and ended up fvcking again. That was my night.

-Scars
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PapiChulo

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Cool, looks like you are on the roll there, and on top of the game.

Keep it up.
 

Kailex

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Scars said:
Forgive me, because I'm still a little drunk. And I also have a girlfriend, so a feel a little bad about all that I did tonight, but it happens.
You're 20.
Stop having a "girlfriend" and instead have MANY girlfriends, the way you are doing. I wouldn't feel bad about that at all. You had a good night. Enjoy your youth while you can.

I know a LOT of people who got into LTR's at the ripe ages of 18-21 and got married and regret not following this path that you are following. Don't feel bad about it, just avoid committing to serious relationships this early in your life.

Good job on keeping up with the right attitude.
If at first you don't succeed, move on to the next one and try with her.
 

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Good job. Wish I was as good as you at your age, I would have had alot more fun. Hell, I'd be having more fun right now if I was that good.
 

FairShake

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Sounds like a great nite dude. I don't think you want your girlfriend though. You seem to be on a roll and she will either kill it or get hurt. Let her go and go crazy!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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