"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Scars

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Spent a few days up in Phoenix this weekend for a friends bday and figured I'd go sarge the area with my buddy a little bit. Got a girls number who worked at a quick silver, pretty cute.

Walked into the store and I get immediately greeted.
HB8: Hi, how are you doing?
Scars: I'm perfect, I'm actually looking for some v-necks could you help me?
HB8: Yeah, I'll try I don't really work here much.
Scars: Okay thanks.

Some basic fluff talk right here, then I frame the conversation:

Scars: Wow, this quicksilver is really nice, the one in my town sucks.
HB8: Oh, where you from?

..talk about my home town and stuff.

Scars: Yeah, I'm actually up here for a friends bday party you should come if you want to.
HB8: Yeah actually, maybe. Do you know where?
Scars: I'm sorry I don't really know this area well, I can let you know later though, do you want to exchange numbers?

Got the number and started texting her a few hours later. The sucky thing was the party was all the way in avondale which is like a 45 min drive so she didn't come, but we're still talking.

Quick and painless.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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