Field Report: Week 2 at the club.

[Dannyrt34]

Just got back from my second week at the club, and it went even better than the last. Tonight I went with my friend, My cousin and her friend, another one of my friends and his girlfriend also came along.

I learned alot tonight, Social proof means alot more than I ever knew in a club. By going with a bunch of people, it gave me an extremely high social value, and other girls noticed this.

Anyway, we arrived there early and not many people were doing much dancing yet, so we hung around and talked while we were waiting for the festivities to pick up. By the way, I'm not going to go into much detail in this report because then it would take me all night to write this.

First approach:
Me and my one friend that has a girlfriend, decided that we should help out my other buddy 'Mike', he has never approached a girl in his life, he is extremely nervous, so we ask this group of hot chicks if anyone would like to dance with him, they said sure, and I went along too. He didn't do much talking but I told the girls "My buddy here is a bit shy, so you girls need to break him out of his shell" they said "aww thats cute" and blah blah blah. Anyway me, him and the girls lock arms, headed towards the dance floor, and danced.

After the dance, they said there going to get a drink and they'll be back. Mike was extremely excited, considering he never even gets that much.

Anyway, I head around and dance with more girls.

Then, later in the night we run back into the first set of girls we danced with. Me and mike dance with them again. We hang around these girls and dance with them a majority of times throughout the night.

Sometime during the night I talk to this cute little blonde girl, danced with her, and she really knew how to dance, amazing at it. While dancing with her, I started waving my hand in front of my face, haha I was extremely hot and sweaty. She noticed this and says "I KNOW! I'm so hot too!" then I said "Yeah, we'd make a hot couple". She smiles, we continue to dance and I get the number.

And after that, more dancing (duh) with other girls. And then towards the end of the night when we're all getting ready to leave I run into the very first group of girls again, I was by myself this time, and danced with the one I thought was most attractive and then number closed her too.

Now, it's time to leave so I meet up with Mike again, he says he wants one more dance before he leaves, and I was gettin tired so we seen a group of 2 girls dancing and I say, "let's just dance with them" so we go over, do our last dance, and then in the middle of the dance they both stop and say "This song is hard to dance to let's wait for the next one" So I say to the one girl "Sorry, but we are actually getting ready to leave" and she said "Well do you want my number" (yay) I get the number and then we leave.

And yes I also got rejected twice tonight, but I'm too lazy and tired right now to write about all that haha.

So here's the stats for me at the end of the night:
Numbers: 3
Approaches: 13
Rejections: 2

Mike made 9 approaches, but he still needs work on actually having conversation and closing the deal.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

What kind of music is the place playing, im having a hard time envisioning all this casual dancing you are doing. btw,good job, let us know if anything happens with the #s.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Music

Mostly like rap. Ok and it wasn't really dancing, it was grinding. I apologize if that confused you. I do treat grinding as something casual at the club, because basically it is. You can dance with a girl there, and it don't mean s*** to either one of you. To make pickups, I usually dance with the girl, and I can usually tell if she's interested in me while I'm dancing with her. She'll usually keep looking over her shoulder at you and smile or something. Then after the dance I usually do some small talk, and try for the number. But yeah It's all casual dancing.