Field Report!!to share

[BES]

Ok i went to the supermarket and mall no luck.

So i got frustrated and lay low for a while(AFC).

Today:
Ok i work as a cashier now and one HB was by herself. So i realized i have to do something to improve myself.

COnversation(she went into my register)
ME: Hi! pause for a moment ....... its pretty busy today
HB: yeah it is
ME: thats a nice necklace you are wearing
HB: ohh thank you.... I got it for my birthday.

luckily my register broke down...... so i have to call My manager .....
while the manager was fixing it she try to make a joke out of me. HB: ohh i think you broke it.
ME: (confuse what to say and smiling at her) so i said : nah it happens a lot.

after the transanction: (silence) trying to print her reciept.

ME: i am very sorry about that (looking at her eye)
HBsmiling) no problem (shes looking at me in the eye)

My mistake: I didnt get her name. Fock (NAME< NAME NAME!!!)
did i miss something important? rather than getting her name.

I did this into 2 HB and it works well (converstion is awesome)
and i got 1 rejection (conversation) she was like rude. probably PMS. hehehe.....


I am going to do this..... just conversation phase.
and when i am comfortable with it.
I will try to ask for there phone#.

(customer thinks i am a manager lol cuz i dress good and tall or i dunno)

the store:
there's a lot of girls in there that shop..... (they are in my age group and older 2-4 years old. i can see it in there ID if they pay by credit lol. i am just bored so i am trying to look for there birth date lol.

PS: i got this one co-worker that i have a crush on. but i am scared to ask her out. Because people say dont date a coworker cuz it will make you quit. ohh well i would not ask her.....but if she gives me a very strong signal that she really wants me ohh hell yeah i will ask her out. i going to think shes my backup. and also she's always on the phone i dunno maybe BF or Friend or something else. and its turns me off.


what u guys think?

 

[JasonDH]

well about the whole co-worker thing, my dad once told me never dip your pen in the company ink well. I made the mistake of dipping my pen and all in all i had to move to NC to get completely out of the situation.

 

[Engetsu]

Friendly conversation doesn't hurt. It gives you more practice for cold pick ups.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dude - Can't you get fired for hitting on tne customers? I see why you take advantage of it but is this peofessional? I guess its' cool until you hit on a feminist nazi and she goes complain to the manager.

When your cash register broke and she commented... you should have made a comeback statement, such as...The cash registers broke but I'm not....how about if a treat you to taco bell tonight? (smiling a grinning like a fiend when asking this).

You should have a hundred pick up lines ready - you know their coming through your line and you are going to talk to them - closing mat be difficult if other people are in line.

 

[BES]

FIRST Aprroach First Rejection

HOLY CRAP
(w/ my i dont give a **** attitude i finnaly approach someone)
i was ordering something and she was in my back)
so i told myself lets do it BES... she is all alone and w/ my dont give a f u c k attitude. and she is not my type anyway just for practise.....

here what happen!

So i try to do jwhite technique
Me:can i ask you a quick question
HB6.5 sure
Me:are you single
HB6.5 yes i am
Me: can i get your phone number
HB6.5: blushing and with pause ummm iam sorry i cant
Me: ok its alright
Me: you look familiar to me.....what school do u go to?????
HB6.5: ______high school

Me: in my mind (**** its high school kid) iam looking for a 18-25 girl
Me: you got a pretty face
hb6.5:Thank you (blushing & nervous).... probably she never got approch before.
hey nice talking to you
she was smiling.....


And she left.......with mommy hehe...

did i do something wrong or she is just to young.
**** should i ask there name first (introduce myself first)
i feel good though after i got rejected i just want to go approach everygirl i want to. but i have to go back to work.

damn i am a slow learner. i need a date on valentines day.

 

[BES]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Dude - Can't you get fired for hitting on tne customers? I see why you take advantage of it but is this peofessional? I guess its' cool until you hit on a feminist nazi and she goes complain to the manager.


No i wont get fired.....i work where all teenagers work 18-25 lol.......if not my profesional job.
Right now i will only approach if they look at me in the eye (attractions)..............thats my que right there if they are attracted i will approach!!! i got a lot of eye contact at work girls trying to approach me can u help me whre is the filler papper at?
and when i go back she look at me in the eye.

but **** i was stupid I didnt get the whole msg that she was sending me.

i need a starter convo for this which one is very appropriate asking someone at work?
are u single kind of type is very agressive.

hi i notice ....you are looking at me? **** i dont know what to say.

PS:ill say i am the pretty boy in all of my co worker. very groom and look young but my i am very shy but i am overcomming my shyness right now.Like i talk a lot now.

 

[MVPlaya]

I'm glad you're out there trying to have a fun time. But don't mix business with pleasure. I worked at Star Bucks for 2 months until my boss fired me because he figured out I'd got a lot of numbers from the girls there. its cool to try and flirt a little, but not during work.

 

[Tango-Kid]

HAH! I totally agree with JasonDH.. how did he put it? "Not to dip your pen.."

This is what happened to me: During my army-time, I tried to pick up one girl who happened to be the daughter of one high-ranked officer... no need to say what happened after the commanding officier found out my intentions

Another case.. I was fooling with one girl who is in the same sports-club with me.. Afterwards I lost interest in her, I can totally say it ruined the chances to ever practice the sporte with her.

I´ve learned my lesson.