"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Field Report Section?

blue17

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Anyone agree with me that there should be a field report section to the Don Juan forums? I have to admit, I am kind of bored of the usual posts about 'how to build confidence' or 'height isn't an issue', 'eye contact' or 'how to win this girl over' etc. I've had my share of reading posts about techniques and such to win girls, and frankly the less I read the better. I don't want to fill my mind with all this stuff in my brain, because I feel just being yourself and having a good overall healthy mindset is 10x better (and easier) then using tricks, games, or manipulation.

That being said, I do get great entertainment value reading field reports. I find that they are very educational - not in the sense of showing you techniques on how to get girls, but what not to do or what TO DO in some cases...and just overall mentality you should have. Almost like the TV show BlindDate, to an extent. They're also very motivational, much moreso than 'theories' about behaviour and psychology posts which you see around so often. When I read a post about some guy who had a really good date with a girl he met somewhere....it makes me think why I couldn't be doing the same thing. It's a very good motivational tool for me (and others, I hope) in that respect.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KnightRyder

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YOU WANT A FIELD REPORT SECTION ...

HERE ? ?


HAHAHAHAHAA ....This Is probably like the FIFTH request I've seen like this.

don't count on it .. I've posted one or two thread requests before you to no avail .. good points but adding changing things around here is really slow or doesn't happen at all. A mod will come around shortly and point out the one change they did make like ten years ago.

lookie here :

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67433
 

diablo

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KnightRyder, making snide comments really does nothing except show a lack of maturity and intelligence. It also invites others to respond to what you've said:
  • SoSuave has only been around ~4 years, not 10.
  • Following the link you provided, you can see where 2 moderators both agreed that this would be a good idea.
  • It's not up to moderators whether a section is added or not added. It never has been, and probably never will be.
  • You're right that you've brought it up before. So have about a quarter of the people on the forum.
  • If you want to make a field report, do so. Perhaps if there are enough quality threads a section will be added...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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diablo

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I don't think that anybody said that it was difficult to add a section... just that moderators don't have the ability to.
 
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