"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Field Report Section?

blue17

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Anyone agree with me that there should be a field report section to the Don Juan forums? I have to admit, I am kind of bored of the usual posts about 'how to build confidence' or 'height isn't an issue', 'eye contact' or 'how to win this girl over' etc. I've had my share of reading posts about techniques and such to win girls, and frankly the less I read the better. I don't want to fill my mind with all this stuff in my brain, because I feel just being yourself and having a good overall healthy mindset is 10x better (and easier) then using tricks, games, or manipulation.

That being said, I do get great entertainment value reading field reports. I find that they are very educational - not in the sense of showing you techniques on how to get girls, but what not to do or what TO DO in some cases...and just overall mentality you should have. Almost like the TV show BlindDate, to an extent. They're also very motivational, much moreso than 'theories' about behaviour and psychology posts which you see around so often. When I read a post about some guy who had a really good date with a girl he met somewhere....it makes me think why I couldn't be doing the same thing. It's a very good motivational tool for me (and others, I hope) in that respect.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KnightRyder

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YOU WANT A FIELD REPORT SECTION ...

HERE ? ?


HAHAHAHAHAA ....This Is probably like the FIFTH request I've seen like this.

don't count on it .. I've posted one or two thread requests before you to no avail .. good points but adding changing things around here is really slow or doesn't happen at all. A mod will come around shortly and point out the one change they did make like ten years ago.

lookie here :

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67433
 

diablo

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KnightRyder, making snide comments really does nothing except show a lack of maturity and intelligence. It also invites others to respond to what you've said:
  • SoSuave has only been around ~4 years, not 10.
  • Following the link you provided, you can see where 2 moderators both agreed that this would be a good idea.
  • It's not up to moderators whether a section is added or not added. It never has been, and probably never will be.
  • You're right that you've brought it up before. So have about a quarter of the people on the forum.
  • If you want to make a field report, do so. Perhaps if there are enough quality threads a section will be added...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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I don't think that anybody said that it was difficult to add a section... just that moderators don't have the ability to.
 
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