Field Report: OLD First Date.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

MoreThanSmooth

Master Don Juan

Sep 5, 2018

Thanks guys, I will study this and try to improve for next time. I'm stupid when it comes to taking my own advice...

Biggest mistake I learned from here was texting for way too f*cking long before the date. We talked for a month over text and I got to know her really well - total waste of time when we only went on one date, I could have been talking to other people. Not to mention it eliminated my mystery.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.