"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Field report of a night (need feedback)

jdawgmcb

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Here's the original post i made earlier:
I have no wingman at the moment available to go to this basketball game that this HB9 hinted to me that i should go to, after dropping several IOIs, including taking my jacket.

Should i go to it anyway without a wingman? I might run into people i know there since it's a smaller community (she's a cheerleader there) and develop social proof, but i don't want to be the loner.

Advice needed badly :)'

it's in about 15-20 minutes that i'd be leaving, so i need your help now :)

should i go or not?

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and here is the field report.


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Here's the field report:

I entered and she immediately knew me, and said hello, i of course responded by waving and smiling... i then found a HB7 and an HB6 to use as social proof as i wouldn't be able to talk to her (because she was busy), I received about 25 IOIs from the target, hair touch, lots face touching, etc. which was good.

After the game, she left to get changed, i wasn't aware of this, so after about 20 minutes, i left, however, i still saw her car parked outside. She must've been a few seconds off for me to make my approach. The reason i didn't stay for the other game was because i saw no reason to stay if there was gonna be no HBs to game, plus i wasn't attracted to the other 2 HBs i was gaming. I thus used a false time constraint by saying that my buddies were meeting at a different spot and left. I guess i learned that 20 minutes is not enough time to let a woman "get ready". Whatever, either way she's gonna come out expecting me, and i won't be there. She will have seen me with good social proof, so it will have been a DHV in itself.

Either way, had a good night, will drop a call in to her and see where it goes, since we're both into fitness, maybe go to the gym or shopping.


Plus on the side note, developed good rapport with some other HBs, so overall pretty good night.

Questions or comments about my field report? Love to hear :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jdawgmcb

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Thanks guys :), even though i wasn't attracted to them, i still think the social proof was a good idea :)

Plus, IOIs are always good.

Anyone else?
 

jdawgmcb

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really could use some more feedback guys :)
 

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Don't call her.

If you were getting lot of IOI's, why didn't you make a move?
 

jdawgmcb

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The Bat said:
Don't call her.

If you were getting lot of IOI's, why didn't you make a move?
She was performing on the field, thus rendering it impossible :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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