"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Field Report - not covered myself in glory

Yo'Mama

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I went with this young Asian girl to a bar. We had a few drinks, then back to my place (I had met her at a club a few weeks ago and we had met one time since).

So all going well so far. Note I hadn't expected her to come to my place this evening, not at all.

We fooled around, slowly. I had a raging boner the whole time. Eventually clothes came off, I put the condom on and we had sex. For about three minutes. The thing to mention is that I haven't had sex in MONTHS. It's been a dry spell. So I came really fast.

I was embarrassed so I made out like the condom broke and I didn't have anymore so would go to the store and get another. I was hoping in the 10 mins I was out I would recover for a second round.

Get back to my place. Fool around again and.... nothing. My c*ck just wouldn't get hard. Was humiliating and I feel awful now.

End of report. Flame away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haha mate, next time just put your hands up and say, sorry couldn't control myself, you are just too hot! and then finish her off "manually".

Instead she's left thinking; wow he made an excuse to leave halfway through and then i couldn't even arouse him...
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Who gives a f*ck?

You got your nut so your good.

Thats the mentality you have to have sometimes. It's not like you were trying to wife her up or anything.
 

Yo'Mama

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Worse, after cvmming, (about 40 mins later and after i had wiped everything off) I was naked with her again and my c*ck was in contact with her pvssy. I didn't go in but was kind of on just rubbing against her. I hadn't taken a piss in between.

Risk of pregnancy from this would be small right?
 

Yo'Mama

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Update: she came round today and after my 3 minute performance yesterday I was able to put in a good 40 mins today and get her off twice. Some days are better than others I guess!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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