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[Field report] No contact made her have Oneitis for me

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So it's 2 months since NC she's been calling and calling with different numbers and I don't pick up.. reason I went NC was because of her flaky behavior.. so she's been calling me like I'm the only one in her life since I activated NC... about/more than 18 calls totally (without me answering any).. freaking scary the level of persistence she has.. She's a 8.5/10 freaking attractive but that doesn't matter.. She's supposed to have options but like @dude99 said: I did to her what no other guy has done before why does she want me? going NC is magical (in keeping attraction, respect and power although it will not work well if the girl doesn't like you in the first place).. So i finally picked up yesterday and here it goes:

Me: Wassup?

She: Finally you decided to pick up my call today... I'm not fine... I'm not.(She starts to sound like a baby sounds when talking to her father.. with full respect giving me super control)..

I told her I'm busy and can't talk much on phone then i setup a meet with her for this evening today and she sounded super excited.. I'm hoping she flakes again XD cos I'll increase NC to 5 months this time. She's like one out of 8 plates and she has onetis because she thinks I'm rare but I just follow my DJ Scriptures right from the beginning i met her, I'm thinking of flaking on her though, but well.. hahaha...
 

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