Field Report: My fourth night out with Matt ala Casanova.

[Drex]

Originally posted by drixsa
Drex,

just read the week 4 i had been keepin up with your posts but i missed this last one

from the way you write and your actions that you have written you seem to becoming much more DJ.

you just have a little trob. with the cold approaches

your at a bar doesnt a drink or 2 help to loosen you up

I definately THINK like a DJ now, for the most part. But I still do not ACT like a DJ, still have those cold approach issues...I think I'll do some warmup shots next time I go out to losen up some. Normally I just grab a light beer or 2 which does nothing.

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Drex
I definately THINK like a DJ now, for the most part. But I still do not ACT like a DJ, still have those cold approach issues...I think I'll do some warmup shots next time I go out to losen up some. Normally I just grab a light beer or 2 which does nothing.

try a jack on the rocks or 2 instead - just a suggestion

 

[suavedave]

I agree drex

It is a good idea to do it on your own. I am sure; first get better and increase confidence. Like the Chinese PUA ("Some notes on the chinese PUA "); he was a lot better than most. Man was he good. But here it is about balance again: If you hang out with lamers all the time they will drag you down, and if you are around pro's you will feel like sh?t because you'll consider yourself lame compared with them. Try it I am sure it will work -- go out a few times on your own... then you'll know the balance of doing it yourself vs. having another person do it for you.

 

[B9]

Originally posted by One on One
Hey, you got any zen resources? You seem like you know your ****.

This might be a place to start.

cheers.

 

[Beige]

Drex, next time you'll be out and see HB - walk to her and ask her what time it is. She'll tell you, you'll say "thank you" and leave.

Do it a couple of times. One day you'll additionaly say: "My name is Drex BTW". That's all you need to do.


Small steps man, small steps.